how can i give my ex relationship another try?
2006-08-28 08:22:57 · 24 answers · asked by icycrissy27blue 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
how can i make my ex relationship with the same guy that i was with work the second time around? do we need to meet each other in the middle or should we call it quits or leave it as good friends and move on?
2006-08-28 08:25:24 · update #1
That would depend on if it was a good relationship to begin with. And why it ended. Did he mess up or you? If it was mutual then I think you should both meet in the middle.
2006-08-28 08:27:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
pick up the phone... just realize that there existed reasons why you are ex's and they may not have been resolved. also make sure that you can both respect eachother after a 'break' and that you don't do the 'so who did you sleep with' crap. what you both did while away from eachother is your own private business. keep in mind the phrase 'what good can come of it' and realize that some things need to be kept in the dark. and the second time around should be no holds barred love stuff. if you are giving it a second go give it your all! there is no 'getting to know you phase, so go for it!
2006-08-28 15:28:51 · answer #2 · answered by DJVC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a peice of paper and write down all the things that had something to do with your old relationship going bad and tell your ex to do the same thing. Discuss all the bad things down to why it happened and how you want to change it or make it better. I assure u that it will work. . .
2006-08-28 15:33:22 · answer #3 · answered by RTKsLuckyLady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first step is for both of you to understand and agree what didn't work the first time around. The two of you may be mature enough to discover this yourselves, or you might want to sit in front of a counselor to dig it out in a calm manner.
2006-08-28 15:29:08 · answer #4 · answered by hawkthree 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First why would you, as being an ex something must of went wrong. If you still do you just go to him or her and discuss it see if they would like the same thing. Check out this site see if it will help you.
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2006-08-28 15:27:06 · answer #5 · answered by lost_soul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont unless the reason yall broke up was not anybodys fault and it was not up to u guys! thats the only way i would take an ex back! cus i know if it was his fault or even urs the problem will ALWAYS come back no matter what!!!!
2006-08-28 15:32:38 · answer #6 · answered by LIZARD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him how you feel, and ask just him to the relationship another chance. You can write him a note expressing your feelings, but the best way is to do it face to face.
2006-08-28 15:26:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't. It didn't work for a reason. Chock it up to experience and move on. People don't change. People change the things that they do, but the person inside, does not change.
2006-08-28 15:26:33 · answer #8 · answered by dclady 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How did it end? Do you rally want to try again? Maybe you should just move on. Think it over before you do anything.
2006-08-28 15:26:37 · answer #9 · answered by Gorgeoustxwoman2013 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your ex? figure a way out to get along with eachother but if it was me i wouldn"t , if you warm up cold soup it doesn't taste the same so move on
2006-08-28 15:26:20 · answer #10 · answered by missthing_21176 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋