an infection. My boyfriend said as soon as i have this baby i should put it up for adoption so we could have sex again. Should I trust him?
2006-08-28 07:49:37 · 19 answers · asked by Cami M 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
why can't you have sex now? if your doctor hasn't given you any reason not to, then do it...use a condom to prevent infection and dump that ***whole you're with...if he wants you to put the baby up for adoption just so you guys can have sex again, dump him....and do it hard....then keep the baby and file for child support. :)
2006-08-28 07:53:35 · answer #1 · answered by squigit1985 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can have sex when your pregnant...it wont harm the baby. the baby is very very protected in there. you can have sex all the way up to the day you give birth. Dont listen to what some man tells you...do what you want. Have your own mind. But always do the RIGHT THING. Adoption is better than abortion, but concider loving and caring for the child yoruself....being there for that baby every step of the way...the way the baby will change your life. Youll enjoy that. and lastly...if you think you have an infection..go to the doctor immediately. That can cause long term effects on the baby. Trust me...my friend just went threw something very similiar.
2006-09-01 05:02:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can have sex while you are pregnant. If you have an infection go to the doctor. Why would you put a baby up for adoption just to have sex? Don't tryst your boyfriend, tell him to get lost. Only a creep would even suggest something like that. Uh, it makes me sick.
2006-08-28 08:01:31 · answer #3 · answered by AlyssaLeigh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can still have sex right now and not harm the baby..
I appluad you for keeping the baby and not killing it by abortion..
But You need to dump your current boyfriend,he just sees you as somone to have sex with and then he gets you pregnant then you have to give the baby up for adoption..basically he sees you as a play thing..
But again Dump the Jerk of a Boyfriend now cuz I assume he is the one pushing for adoption,that way if you want to keep the baby you can..There are guys out there that don't mind if you are a single mother..
2006-08-28 08:05:06 · answer #4 · answered by steve 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't trust your BF. Sounds like to me he doesn't care for you or your baby. Go to the doctor and find out if there is somthing really wrong. Yes you can have sex even being pregnant. As for the adoption, contact a local agency if you truly want to give the baby up.
2006-08-28 07:56:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your bf is not too bright first off. Adoption has NOTHING to do with sex, but with the fact in sight that he obviously just doesn't want the child, he probably may not make the best father either, in which you might want to consider going it alone. As for sex period, you can still have sex. But if you have an infection, get yourself cleared up before you do anything. Go see your doctor. Bottom line. Your doctor is going to be the one to clear things up for you at this point. But please use your head and do not listen to your bf. He really sounds like an insensitive ***, that you would be better off without if you want to give birth to this baby.
Good luck.
2006-08-28 07:55:11 · answer #6 · answered by saintlyinnocents 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, don't trust him. If you think you have an infection go to the doctor immediately. UTI's are common during pregnancy. As for the adoption thing, that's up to you, however you can stilll have sex if you have children, How do you think people have more than one child. If sounds like he just doesn't want the kid. In that case I would kick him to the curb, that is if you do want the child
2006-08-28 08:08:41 · answer #7 · answered by Nails 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what kind of infection do you have? has this been verified by an actual doctor? you need to try to get this checked and taken care of if you can. you are able to have sex while you are pregnant, you know that, right? if your boyfriend does not want to have sex with you, don't have sex with him...AND he's probably having sex with someone else right now! Also, HE might be the one that has the infection and you DON'T want to catch anything from him, especially now that you are pregnant! you have two people to look after now. Bottom line, take care of yourself and don't have sex with him. good luck with your baby and God bless you AND your baby
2006-08-28 07:57:42 · answer #8 · answered by one_sera_phim 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my sister~sickness in the first three months of pregnancy is normal. Once you enter your second tri-mester it will subside. If you feel like you have an infection by all means go to the doctor and have it checked out. My greatest concern is for the nature of your relationship. You are having a child outside of marriage-I know the world has led us to believe that this is "common" but hear me when I say it displeases the Lord. I dont care what you see Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie and others doing...I encourage you to not continue in the sin that has gotten you here. Seek repentance from God first, ask Him to come into your life, and trust HIM to direct you, no one else. I have walked this road (pregnant at 17) you are beginning to travel and I assure you, its not an easy one when we live according to the desire of our flesh (lust).
I will lift you in prayer....
God bless you and keep you..
2006-08-28 08:08:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Throughout your pregnancy make sure you go to all your scheduled appointments with your OB. Get all your tests done and get antibiotics if its needed. Focus on taking care of yourself and the baby. You can still have sex during pregnancy. Just stay away from positions that would put pressure on your stomach. If you want this baby its your decision and he will have to support his baby if you decide to keep him/her. I'm 19 single and just had a baby girl and deciding to keep her was the best decision i made in my life!
2006-08-28 07:56:51 · answer #10 · answered by Kami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋