2006-08-28 07:47:23 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
change the hair color and buy some different nighties. Talk to him about what turns him on. Try getting toys and oils, ect... Try setting a date with him and act like you two are meeting for the first time. There are different things to do, like role play. Use you imagination. Some time guys need a change of the same oh same oh.
2006-08-28 07:57:49 · answer #1 · answered by really???? 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it all depends on the situation. how do you know that your "hubby" is not sexually attracted to you or not? either way that doesn't compare to his love. i mean if he really loves you that will conquer all. love defeats anything. there are relationships that both parteners arn't exactly attracted to one another but they love each other either way. so hopefully your situation is heading that way. but i would suggest talking this out with him instead of making actions that could end up messing things. personally you find this very uncomfortable, and irritable that your husband is not sexually attracted to you but i think this is great for only one reason. to prove his love for you. this is a chance for you to see another side of him that he hasn't revealed to you. he could either turn up shallow and dump you like trash but he's not attracted to you or he can be a dream guy and love you for the person you are. i think this is good for your relationship because it's good to know once in a while where your relationship and future is heading. the sooner, the better. if he ends up being shallow then you can dump him by choice instead of finding out later. hopefully everything works out for you and if anything goes worse i would suggest talking to marriage consollore.
2006-08-28 07:56:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are they sexually attracted after the same peice for yrs?I bet its not so exciteing as it was anyway! Well Id just look my best all the time and dress sexy ,show clevage ect.And dont put yourself down around him .Also men get excited if other men want you so get the other men to notice u when in public...act like your on the make like when u were single.Go for it!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-28 07:52:50 · answer #3 · answered by jessy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would want to talk to him and ask him why and what you can do to make it better. Id also keep my eyes open to see if he is coming home late or seeing another person. Im not saying your husband is but some ppls husband/wife dont have much sexual attraction with their spouse when there seein another person!
2006-08-28 08:07:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Before you ask him,ask yourself,have you put on weight? Have you let yourself get sloppy? Are you still flirting with him? Maybe you need to try flirting,if that doesn't work,then ask him why,but don't ask in a combative or nasty way,ask him with concern in your voice,he won't be ready for a fight that way. It could just be he has gotten himself either over tired from extra work,or he's gotten into a rut of not feeling like it. But do ask him,he has the only answer. Good luck.
2006-08-28 07:53:59 · answer #5 · answered by fairy53042000 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Loose some weight,if you are overweight, buy some great outfits, read a book called "For you Both" by Lonnie Barbach, have him read it too, discuss your feelings, and get him to see a physician. As a last resort, both of you consult a sex therapist...
2006-08-28 07:50:25 · answer #6 · answered by April 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That would make me sad. I always try and do things to turn him on. I wear short shorts, no panties and bend down in front of him, I wear low cute shirts and tease him. I whisper sexual things in his ear when we are with a lot of people. He is so turned on all of time he can't wait to take me home.
2006-08-28 07:51:34 · answer #7 · answered by SEXY 818 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would do my best to get him back attracted too me sexually again.
2006-08-28 07:50:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe his tired of the same old, same old....Try something new, toys, roll playing, maybe you can get some sexy from Victoria Secrets, and trying new positions never hurts, good luck!
2006-08-28 07:57:36 · answer #9 · answered by sour_apple809 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well first i would find out why?And if its something i could change then i would change it.If he wasnt attracted to me then either then i would know that it wasnt a physical thing and would give him the option of what he wanted to do then i would move on and find someone that did find me attractive,then id rub it in his damn face thats me personally.
2006-08-28 07:56:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋