What can I do to show her that I still love her deeply and want to spend my life with her and no other?
2006-08-28 07:42:30 · 12 answers · asked by Mike S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The small things means the most. Have the kids make her a card. Get a babysitter and take her some place fun. The whole diamond ring thing is BS. Be kind, be complimentary. Get a babysitter and go someplace fun for a weekend. That last one's my best suggestion.
2006-08-28 07:46:30 · answer #1 · answered by HomeSweetSiliconValley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can really relate to your question, My husband and I have a similar problem, and we have no one to watch our kids at all. My husband loves me very much I have no doubt about his love for me. He brings me unexpected flowers everynow and then, He cooks dinner for me at least once a week, breakfast on sunday mornings. But even though we dont have much time alone except a night when the kids go to bed, we both know that this time is short while the kids are little and soon they will be gone all grownup and taking care of there own family, and we will have plenty of time alone.
Just know you are doing the right thing just being a good father and husband. Life is short enjoy your family do something different every now and then, surprise her you'll see.
2006-08-28 15:15:17 · answer #2 · answered by zac's mom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a dependable babysitter for the kids. Take her out to get a new suit of clothes (she picks while you stand back and watch no matter how long it takes her.)Tell her to pick out whatever she would feel sexy and comfortable in to go clubbin or out to dinner. If she ask you what you think of a piece of clothing. BE HONEST. Go rent a motel room afterwards so the two of you can lay in bed and snuggle with no interuptions and last but not least. Tell her how much you love her and how you could not live without her. She will be very pleased.
2006-08-28 14:56:15 · answer #3 · answered by Just_Curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A marriage is something that needs to be worked on every day. You can't just stop by "I do", and think that now that he/she is mine I'm done. Get back into doing whatever it was you were doing before, in order to win her heart. I know it's not easy making extra time, but you have to believe that it is worth the time. Go on date nights perhaps. Take one evening per week, where you will find a babysitter, and take your wife out on a date. Or share a something you both have in common, like a hobby.
2006-08-28 14:51:07 · answer #4 · answered by brownsugar_smile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Send the kids off to someone for a night or two.
2. Cook her favorite meal or take her to her favorite restaurant (or where you went on your first date or where you got engaged or married).
3. Just hold her and tell her you love her.
4. Stop on the way home from work and pick her a flower (not buy her a flower; find a place where they are growing and pick one for her).
5. Tell her exactly what you wrote!
2006-08-28 14:53:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to a normal marriage.
three kids, both work, put Sunday aside for a family day.
Think about one of you cutting back to 30 hours. Get a good sitter once or twice a month to watch the kids.
Get the calendar out and mark 6 or 12 special dates.
2006-08-28 14:49:58 · answer #6 · answered by god knows and sees else Yahoo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave.
Town.
Alone.
seriously, drop the kids with a friend, and go have a weekend to yourselves. don't get me wrong - i adore my daughter, but i also recognize that to give her a great life, it's best for her parents to be in a stable, loving relationship. so sometimes we let her stay with friends and go away together to remember why we fell in love.
and hey, you don't even have to go anywhere. just tell everyone you're leaving town and stay at home.
2006-08-28 14:47:27 · answer #7 · answered by kwanyin_mama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats wrong with telling her, you seem to know what to say. Just look at your question.
2006-08-28 14:47:11 · answer #8 · answered by SEXY 818 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a weekend alone just the two of you
2006-08-28 14:47:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude , put on her panties and charge her like king kong!
2006-08-28 16:05:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋