my boyfriend of over 1 yr favors his 6yr old son over his 4yr old son and my 4yr old daughter. when he has to go down the road he sneaks his older son out with him leaving my daughter and his youngest with me. my daughter wants to go with him but he never asks her to go.
I talked to him about it before and just said that he takes the 6yr old cause he's older and it's easier. I told him he has to treat them all the same just like I do.
If he's got the show car out to meet us somewhere he asks the oldest if he wants to ride with him and the other 2 are left crying.... so then I make him put them in the car afterward. but I feel like I have to tell him to treet them the same.
is it normal for dads to have favorites? and what about my daughter? I don't want her to feel left out cause she's not his
2006-08-28 07:42:29 · 6 answers · asked by dannysgrl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
What can you say, one, he's a man, can't tell him anything, two, just take the other two out with you and do something fun with them, sounds like your the one being left out , so all three of you go do something a four year old would enjoy.
2006-08-28 07:55:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes its normal for a favorite kid ! Some just get along better at different ages .Like I enjoyed my son at 3 over alot of his ages.Its just the son is older and it is easier and most men dont get into the little ones as much the mother does.So u will just have to wait on the daughter ect to get older then he will come thru.
2006-08-28 07:48:11 · answer #2 · answered by jessy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your B/F is in the wrong.... Do you want a b/f that treats his younger son and your daughter that way?
2006-08-28 07:47:38 · answer #3 · answered by David 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i find that very wrong cuz i find that all kids should be treated the same and wen kids are treated different or they feel like they are being treated different they sometimes have depression probs as they get older
2006-08-28 07:49:29 · answer #4 · answered by samantha l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally i dint think a dad should have a favorite and i also dint think its normal.. he should love them all equally.. i think u should seriously talk to him.. if that doesn't work, try to do family activities together.. do fun things get the whole family involved.. if nothing works seek professional help..
2006-08-28 07:46:51 · answer #5 · answered by u lovee it ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's wrong to favor one child over the other. and it's also not good that you are dating someone with a child while you yourself have a child of your own. i promise you will have problems. lots of men don't end up loving their stepkids as much as their own... so don't expect him to.
2006-08-28 08:45:51 · answer #6 · answered by jami p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋