Will my partner's ex wife always be bitter and soured??? Using the kids as pawns in some sick destructive game against him just because he's moved on with his life...... Or....... Will she one day find a life of her own and move on???????
2006-08-28 07:38:12 · 23 answers · asked by Bodieann 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Thanks everyone for answering. It's good to know that other people have had/are having the same experiences....
Spot the ex-wives in the answers tho, eh!!
2006-08-28 10:52:13 · update #1
My partners ex is currently twisting their 5 year olds sons mind. She has filled his head with so much crap that the kid looks scared of his own dad and me.
She has re-married. So why does she do this?
Shes crazy. She continually lies to my ex over their son and makes pathetic excuses up. Why why why?
I stay out of it, but it is driving me mad already.
The only people they are damaging are their own kids!
2006-08-28 07:50:06 · answer #1 · answered by loopy lou 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
mmm my ex moved on and everything was fine until i met my best wife...then it went **** up with my weekend visits....she thought it was ok for her to have partners but not me...she let me make the journey over to her house and then say she wasn't well and when i asked to see her she said no but i could hear her crying daddy in the house....so the answer is a resounding no....for the first few years anyway
can i just say when she was giving it to all and anyone life was good for her and i had our child while she did it...me and the better half worked our life round my daughter...my ex is just a slapper...and i will never forgive or talk to her again...may sound vindictive but that is the payback she deserves
2006-08-28 09:52:09 · answer #2 · answered by robert h 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. I don't think they will change. Not all ex's are like that but my husbands ex is. She uses their daughter against us and his family. We have her 95% of the time, we feed her, put clothes on her back and make sure her school work is done and the poor child runs when she comes to pick her up. And she has main custody of the child and we still pay the child support. So I know how you feel. Just bite your tongue and try not to pull out a gun on her.
2006-08-28 18:19:20 · answer #3 · answered by dnew176 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the individual and the problems the marriage had, some women just are not that forgiving
She will most likely always hate her ex husband and enjoy making his life hell but in time she will get bored of that and will move on, she's just not ready to yet unfortunately
2006-08-28 07:47:00 · answer #4 · answered by madamspud169 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The ex is still just mad cause her man is with someone else, sounds like the new one has no kids, probably still has a flat stomach on her. She won't go away until she finds something that looks just as good or better.
2006-08-28 07:47:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The ex-wife doesn't have a life. Your husband was her life and now she is playing games to keep him in her life and also make him suffer.
Your husband needs to just say how he feels about it and put her in her place otherwise this could go on for a long time.
Hope things work out. Its all about communication.
2006-08-28 09:38:43 · answer #6 · answered by Easy Tiger 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm an ex-wife. I don't care about my ex-husband and he doesn't care about me. I don't even know his new wife's name. I don't care what it is. I do care however that he forgot our youngest son's birthday. Am I bitter? No. Do I think he has a long way to go before he is an acceptable father? Yes. Does my point of view change your outlook? Maybe.
2006-08-28 08:06:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what type of a person she is, actually woman have deeper love so may be she still have strong feelings for him that's why she is trying to get attention from him, but I think she will one day realise that she had losed him forever and she will move on with her life.
2006-08-28 08:51:04 · answer #8 · answered by lion king 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're nuts. At least mine is. Of course it's my fault (whatever IT may be this time), I'm a guy. Even though she's got another guy living with her for the past year and a half, everything always comes back to me.
2006-08-28 09:49:19 · answer #9 · answered by trblmkr30 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the individual i guess
my boss at work is remarried. his ex wife is still bitter & sour & they split up 8 years ago. she's never moved on & would take him back instantly if he wanted to go there.
2006-08-28 07:41:16 · answer #10 · answered by tjstarbe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋