I had this really good friend of mine we met in boarding school in our freshman year of high school, bythe time we were graduating we were best friends. She then decided to go study abroad, for the first month we had a lot to talk about, but as time went by i started drifting away, i nolonger reply her emails but she still writes, how can i ''reconnect '' with her ?
I just dont feel the bond any more but i still like her . am i being bad? does this happen to anyone else?
2006-08-28 07:21:37 · 9 answers · asked by blacroze 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Keeping in touch with them as much as possible.
2006-08-28 07:24:46 · answer #1 · answered by shortie_1_2001 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is important to keep in touch. Writing letters is fine but maybe a call to her every once in a while. Plan a trip to see her.
But I will tell you you tend to lose friends in life. Moving away is a big thing. There will always be another friend around the corner if you put the effort into making friends.
There will probably not be one like the girl you mentioned. And it probably will not be as easy cause in a boarding house you see them on a daily basis I am sure. But when you look you might find one that will be an even better friend, but you will probably find some that will not too.
As of a couple of years ago I finally lost contact with all of my high-school friends except one. But I have made some friends that I am so much more closer to in the last few years.
I encourage you to keep trying.
2006-08-28 07:34:15 · answer #2 · answered by Duane L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is normal for time to pass. What you need to do is make a call and get together with yoiur friend. If you call every now and then it helpes keep the friend ship going. Good luck.....
2006-08-28 07:26:08 · answer #3 · answered by ladyjamie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want to reconnect then sit down at the computer and write her a "Hey, how're you doing?" email.
2006-08-28 07:27:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely you ought to sit down and confer mutually with her and tell her ur now unlikely to end because you want to reinforce up and she or he ought to follow to a similar pastime and if not then perhaps you may study mutually with her at times and discover some loose time for her then perhaps she will have the capacity to relax and tell her if shes being shallow yet dont be advise about it
2016-11-28 02:46:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
by keeping touch by phone, email and letters and to plan times to reunited when possible at least once a year if not more often
2006-08-28 07:25:55 · answer #6 · answered by valgal115 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it happens to everyone else. if you want to reconnect, just reply to her emails. if you don't, reply and tell her that you're really busy and you're sorry you haven't gotten back to her sooner. then ignore them for a while. people grow apart, it's just a part of life.
2006-08-28 07:25:25 · answer #7 · answered by ashley f 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just spend time with her now and again. you might jsut seriously be growing up and turning into different people.
2006-08-28 07:26:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
act like them and hang with them
2006-08-28 07:26:53 · answer #9 · answered by derrick b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋