he cheated on me once i think he is going to ask the big question of marriage, should i accept ? what should i do?
2006-08-28 07:19:44 · 18 answers · asked by Gianna 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Dear, if you don't know whether or not you should accept his proposal, then you ARE NOT READY to get married to anyone! It's that simple. I mean, if you have to ask the people on Yahoo, then you are in BIG trouble.
2006-08-28 07:22:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't accept. If you do he'll cheat throughout your marriage. You've been with him for 2 years and he hasn't asked you already?? He doesn't think you're the one. If he did, he would've proposed before 6 months. Mine knew the day he met me and we went looking for rings 1 month after we started dating. He proposed 3 months later at a big charity event in front of a crowd. When they want you, they make you theirs fast - this guy is stringing you along big time.
2006-08-28 07:36:17 · answer #2 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say HELL NO.! Once a cheater ALWAYS a cheater! That saying didn't just fall out of the sky its tried and true. Do you guys live together, any kids? Have you even experienced life inside his life day to day, night after night, baby love is blind and it makes you build this illusion that the man you love is perfect then... the walls crumble and your left with this thing you once would have died for now only to wonder what else is out there.......
2006-08-28 07:24:33 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ ღAngelicaღ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya you are the only one who really knows him. Maybe he cheated once, but who knows PEOPLE do change!! Believe that!If you think you both are ready for marriage go ahead !!
Have fun I wish you all the luck in the world!! ;)
2006-08-28 07:24:33 · answer #4 · answered by not_your_average*chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on how well you trust him, now. If you have doubt and I think you do, then whats the big hurry? Don't get married until you are sure of what you wanna do. Go with what your heart says. But also, don't totally disregard the past.
2006-08-28 07:35:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would only accept his proposal if you feel in your heart that you have completely forgiven him for cheating on you and you have no hidden resentment towards him. I feel that this is the only way you could trust him in the future.
2006-08-28 07:22:35 · answer #6 · answered by sweetcheeks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love him and think that he will be faithful to you then I would suggest saying yes and then going to pre-marital counseling. It will help prepare you for life together and let you know if it will work before you say "I do" and it can be fun too. Good luck with everything.
2006-08-28 07:31:46 · answer #7 · answered by hideemosquito 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o boy ur heading fr trouble there if u accept
he hs done it once will do it again
n u wont hv other options which u hv nw
its in there nature
if u wanna keep
play hard t get but look intrested
if not... jst toy arnd wt him
n let him pay the price fr his doing
2006-08-28 07:27:05 · answer #8 · answered by psycadelic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it once and he'll do it again . It might not be now or even soon but he knows he can get away with it and he might want to test that theory out. Just my experience.
2006-08-28 07:42:43 · answer #9 · answered by evelina422pl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get involved any further. Back away, and just keep going, until you are as faaaar away as possible!
2006-08-28 07:24:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋