Ive been with this girl for over a year and a half now and Just recently, since she has had a new job, she has been meeting a bunch of new friends, which is cool i dont mind, but she has recently been hanging out with this group of people, and there is a certain guy that seems to spark my attention and is taking her to a concert in the near future. just the past couple of days i tried to call about the usual time i normaly do and no one answers,cool, i dont mind,just leave message. next day same thing so i text her. she text me back saying she was at the movies with some friends. the third day same thing just a text saying she hanging with the friends at a college, no i love you or anything the past 3 days and we are most of the time together and always tell each other i love you and good night. She calls on the 4th day early, about 9. saying she spent the night. now she has so many plans and seems too busy, the i love you's dont sound convincing really, but could just be me. i jealo.?
2006-08-28 07:19:04 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
sounds as if she might be getting a bit of action on the side.
2006-08-28 07:22:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
She may like the new attention she is now getting from all of these friends and this guy. Either she is with this guy all the time and using these new friends as an excuse or she found someone else while she is out with this group of people. It may be time to move on-confront her or suffer. Good luck!
2006-08-28 16:45:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL you are an a s s.
Your girl is going out with other guys and what you do is just sit down there and call it "cool".
You'd better start thinking about how to solve the situation man.
2006-08-28 14:25:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
read ur story again, u'll see ur answer there.
whether she's cheating or not is not the issue. she has found new interests that u dont feature in.
she's moved on. try to be more friendly with other pple too, instead of building ur life around one person. that's the life the 21st century demands, so move on man and stop hurting urself.
she's giving all the "I've moved" signs pls read them carefully.
2006-08-28 14:36:15 · answer #4 · answered by lifejourney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you have noticed so many inconsistencies basically means that you've already answered your question. If it waddles like a duck, quacks like a duck and tastes good a l' orange it's probably a duck.
2006-08-28 14:40:38 · answer #5 · answered by nerv6963 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are worried, next time you talk to her ask her. openly ask her if she has feelings for this guy. But if you think asking her will mess what you to have then just give it some time. If this keeps going on then tell her your upset about her spending time with this guy.
2006-08-28 15:08:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if she isn't cheating, (which she probably is) the relationship is obviously not working anymore. Say goodbye and find someone else.
2006-08-28 14:37:36 · answer #7 · answered by ask the eightball 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might be cheating, but the question is do you trust her. you need to talk to her but be careful how you bring it up because the fact that you asking may make her feel that she is not trusted.
2006-08-28 14:25:01 · answer #8 · answered by lynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You took her for granted and now someone is paying real attention to her.
Sorry dude, it's moving day.
2006-08-28 14:33:33 · answer #9 · answered by hellsbells 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better be moving along. She's cheating...if it's not physical yet it will soon be. Sorry that she broke your heart but she's so not into you that you don't even realize it's over
2006-08-28 14:24:17 · answer #10 · answered by notyours 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry man but I think she is cheating If my man called me I would answer the Phone and if there is guys where im going my man comes
2006-08-28 14:24:14 · answer #11 · answered by HunnyBunny 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋