Have you ever had sex just for her? And I don't mean all about her I mean you weren't in the mood, watchin the clock kind of sex. Women do this for men all the time, but I wonder do they do it for us?
2006-08-28 07:08:47 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes I have. And if I really was not in the mood (could not maintain an erection) I performed oral for her until she got off.
It is all about keeping each other satisfied.
2006-08-28 07:14:06 · answer #1 · answered by Just Another Guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, no biggie. There is a difference, women can "just lay there" and get it done, men have to reach a certain level of arousal before anything can happen, so it's a little trickier for men to just"lay there". So what I'm saying is we can't be out of it 100%, watching the clock sort of thing or it won't work.
2006-08-28 07:39:51 · answer #2 · answered by Jeffrey S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the difference between men and women. Men *always* want to have sex. It is even better when it is her idea. I'm sure that there are some men out there who have lost interest in their wife or are no longer attracted to her for some reason, but that is about the only reason I can think of that this would apply.
2006-08-28 07:11:59 · answer #3 · answered by zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. In such situations she has to do most of the foreplay, get me standing and she will have to be on top. 40% of the time she will not reach her climax or orgasm when I am not in the mood. However I try to help her enjoy it. However sex is better and much more pleasurable when both parties are in the mood
2006-08-28 07:19:07 · answer #4 · answered by patoliko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have a few times in the three years I have been married. Sometimes after a long day at work or even worse coming back from a field training exercise I just want to sleep and if my wife wants some I do it just to please her but I am sure she does the same for me.
2006-08-28 07:43:31 · answer #5 · answered by armyguy06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I actually dated a girl that wanted sex more than me. And you know that if you want sex more than a guy you want it alot.
We would have sex like 4 times a night, after the 2nd time I was doing it all for her. And let me tell you your ba lls hurt after doing it that much.
The relationship didn't last that long.
2006-08-28 07:13:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Defintely watching the clock. Most of the time we both watched the clock
2006-08-31 15:29:43 · answer #7 · answered by homermisc2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. The women I've been with have always thought of themselves as "in charge" of when, how, or where it will happen.
I've had the feeling of "punching the clock and doing my job."
2006-08-28 07:12:36 · answer #8 · answered by d h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question. I thought I was the only one that was doing this. Happy to see that other guys have to "service" their ladies when they're too tired to get it up sometimes.
Okay, now a question for you...is this what's happening to you? Is your man falling down on the job or something?
2006-08-28 07:43:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, been there. My schedule was such that I wasn't getting hardly any sleep, and I'd still try to be there for her. On the few nights I couldn't, she'd get upset, but then I'd point out that she falls asleep on my twice as often, and she got over it.
2006-08-28 07:13:12 · answer #10 · answered by Sean J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋