I want to tell him of the possiblity before he leaves. But if I am wrong and it isn't what it seems he may see it all as a trap to keep him with me. That isn't the case at all i want the best for him. I have a life here with my children already but i don't want to have to tell him later and then he think I kept it from him on purpose... God.. I am to old for this.. please offer soem advice besides take a test because.. its still to early for all that and he leaves Friday...
2006-08-28 07:06:28 · 8 answers · asked by red74 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
you should tell him you THINK you could be pregnant and tell him why (i.e. missed period, etc...) my husband is in the navy and kind of enjoys it....he is re-enlisting in Nov not because he doesn't love us (like that first dope said) but because it's a guaranteed job with a guaranteed paycheck...and, yeah, it's hard...he'll be gone for 6mos at a time and on and off for 2wks. before his first cruise, but life goes on...and technology makes it possible to communicate while he's gone to tell him about our son, me, etc...just tell him and hang in there.
2006-08-28 07:50:35 · answer #1 · answered by squigit1985 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him before he leaves, but you should make sure he understands that this is NOT an attempt to rekindle your relationship. You already have children with him and if they could not trap him then the new baby shouldn't "trap" him either. Be adult about it and let him know, but continue to proceed with your life. You both knew the possible outcome when you were having relations. So let him know before he goes.
2006-08-28 14:13:51 · answer #2 · answered by Sharee B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you may be pregnant. Tell him why you think it is possible(symptoms, the time of the month... whatever is making you feel that you are) and explain that it is too early to find out for sure.
Tell him that you just wanted him to know it was a possibility before he left and that you will let him know as soon as you find out for sure.
Good Luck!
2006-08-28 14:17:44 · answer #3 · answered by Jen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know how many men in the Military leave to go over seas, and leave and pregnant person behind? Every single one of them I have known, is absolutely ecstatic about the new edition. Tell him!
2006-08-28 14:17:00 · answer #4 · answered by mememe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why in the world didn't you discuss this matter before you had unprotected sex? Now you have to discuss it with him. If he is going to be a father, he needs to know. What a mess the two of you have made and a child is involved. Unfair.
2006-08-28 14:13:36 · answer #5 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put a letter in his clothes for him to find when he arrives at camp. By then you should know for sure and he will probably call you to find out for sure. Explain why you did it that way.
2006-08-28 14:15:41 · answer #6 · answered by BUPPY'S MEME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply tell him you think you are pregnant. If he leaves, you'll know he doesn't love you and instead wants to be a little boy playing war with his little buddies.
2006-08-28 14:12:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
tell him that you are unsure if you are pregnat or not so that at least he knows
2006-08-28 14:16:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋