what about if you marry someone who is, for example, size 10, and they gain weight and are size 16 ten years later...would this bother you?
2006-08-28 06:51:46 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No, when you love a woman & marry them you dont stop loving them just because they gain a few pounds
2006-08-28 10:02:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sometimes it does not make a difference if a person just fell in love with the figure then yes they will get annoyed at a gain of weight but these are the shallow ones there are men who dont care and done the right thing of falling in love/ being attracted to the girl rather than what she looks like then it shopuld not bother someone. the best way would to be speaking to the man to get an answer but good luck getting an honest answer
2006-08-28 06:56:42 · answer #2 · answered by Firebug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a guy and don't think it should bother any guy what size a woman is. What matters is that you both love and respect each other.
But like some women, some men are attracted to fat women some are attracted to skinny women. It has nothin to do with u as a person, the what perference the guy has.
2006-08-28 06:55:39 · answer #3 · answered by Rogue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is the most excellent way....love covers a multitude of sins...physical attraction is one aspect of why people enter relationships...unless someone is shallow and vain and selfish and superficial...if you love someone enough to marry this shouldn't bother you enough to be insurmountable...gentle encouragement and exercising and dieting together if it does bother you....weight loss should be health over vanity...and does the weight gain indicate deeper issues you could help them with or you may have created that indicate you may need to change certain aspects of your relationship with one another...BUT LOVE SHOULD KEEP NO RECORD OF WRONGS wether it be a few extra pounds on the hips or someone being bothered by that for any reason other than encouragement or health...
2006-08-28 07:04:22 · answer #4 · answered by jamie p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the hell does it matter what someone looks like. Our bodies are just shells that we leave behind when we die. It's whats inside that counts. All the people that say size matters answer this..... if your partners looks were damaged in an accident would you stay with them and love them no matter what they look like or leave them because they now look different to when you met? I think we all hope that it would be the first response. Open your eyes and see inside people because that's who we really are.
2006-08-28 07:02:22 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs Joaquin Phoenix 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all boils down to one thing getting yer selves into a daily routine
you keep her busy by keeping her active
as long as her attitude does not change that is all that should matter if her were to start gaining weight i would say something and sort it out...men should also realize a woman will gain weight after pregnancy so after she as given birth let her join a gym for a while
you let yer wife go to pot your marriage wont go sour but the sex will certainly not be as much fun :)
2006-08-28 07:03:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
.From a woman's point of view ,let me give you an answer. How would you feel if your lady, became bothered about your receding hair line , sagging butt. etc, or you still the perfect man she new 10 years ago?. People change, that is a fact of life. If we are mature our appearance is not what got us together ,nor what keeps us together, because we respect the person, not how they look.I You would you best watch what goes around comes around.
2006-08-28 07:03:19 · answer #7 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i decided not to read your other answers before replying because my wife has got a little bit bigger over the years but i find her more beautiful than ever and to be fare with my growing waste line i am happy that she is getting slightly bigger as well. i always have gone for skinny women but my tastes are changing and i like the feeling of my wife being larger sad hey!
2006-08-28 07:17:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ideally neither fat nor thin.Real life however is far from ideal. In a way fat is good. It is of course ones personal choice. Fat gives you enjoyable cushioning effect and dampens vibrations.
2006-08-28 06:58:22 · answer #9 · answered by openpsychy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you bought a house to only find out that it is falling apart would you be happy? Think about this/ really. Men can get used to their women getting out of shape along with themselves but when they get that out of shape it definately makes a difference in their attention towards their wives.
2006-08-28 06:56:10 · answer #10 · answered by TMAC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋