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Ok am shy at first and i know who i am but its so hard trying to be me in front of people. Becouse of my past and personal problems. All i think i need is a little self i steam ond some confidence to break out of my shell. please tell me whats the best way to boost self i steam and confidece. Thank You! --------------- > no rude comets please ive hard theme all it will not get to me !

2006-08-28 06:35:40 · 9 answers · asked by Jamie L 1 in Society & Culture Other - Society & Culture

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think postive. Everybody has weaknesses and qualities, focus on the latter, and also, undertake an activity you like, it will boost your self-confidence to know that you're doing something you love. Try talking to only 1 person at a time, it's usually easier to build relationships that way.

2006-08-28 06:43:15 · answer #1 · answered by babychi 4 · 0 0

Don't worry so much about who you're good enough for. Instead, figure out who is worthy of you. Make friends w/ people who you can respect, for whatever your reasons. Say "Hello," and talk about something you like, that might be easy for them to relate to. Some people won't like you, and some people will like you, and that's ok. But you won't make any of the friends you don't reach out to, so the ones who aren't in to you really aren't a loss. Rejection doesn't make you less of a person. And you can't be afraid to reject the people who you don't want to be friends with either. You won't get anywhere if you don't put yourself out there a little though, and ALWAYS be yourself.

2006-08-28 13:55:44 · answer #2 · answered by bamboosaurus 1 · 0 0

Positive self talk - tell yourself that you are a good person who deserves to be loved and deserves good things - cause you do. Tell yourself that your past does not define you and that you are in control of your future.

Try to work out also - it boosts serotonin in your brain and releases feel good chemicals that help lift depression. Go for a run, lift weights -do things that you enjoy. Writing may help you release some of your anger and pain from the past as well so try to get those feelings out- all of the ones that you have stuffed inside of you for so long - you have to get them out of you - that is why writing and exercise it so good for you.

2006-08-31 18:59:13 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0 0

~Have your abusive parents and back-stabbing friends beat a little confidence into you.
There's a bit of a pattern to your questions, don't you think.
Aren't I a wimp? Aren't I a loser? Aren't I a poor excuse of a human being? Don't you feel sorry for me?
Yes to the first three, not to the last.
Do you get off on this, or what?

2006-08-31 18:45:38 · answer #4 · answered by Oscar Himpflewitz 7 · 1 0

Find something that you are good at or enjoy doing. Self esteem is called SELF esteem because it comes from within. Once you find that thing you are good at or love, it will build your confidence.
Only surround yourself with positive people. It was hard for me at first to stop contact with the people I had hung around but they were such bad influences. Treat yourself as you would treat anyone you truly love or care about. If you would cook for them. Cook for yourself. Whatever you would normally do for somebody you love, do that for yourself. It helped me heaps! Good luck babe!

2006-08-28 13:54:00 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0 0

Train yourself to only entertain posotive thoughts about you! Surround yourself with posotive people. Watch how you talk to/about yourself, it really does make a difference. Remember that when someone is rude its a reflection of them not you. Just get out there and socialize no matter how hard it is. It will get easier!

2006-08-28 13:43:17 · answer #6 · answered by princesssduhhh 2 · 0 0

Try talking in front of a mirror - you see your facial expressions and your clothes - this will help you when you get out in public - you will know what works for you - good luck!@

2006-08-28 13:39:59 · answer #7 · answered by nswblue 6 · 0 0

just have a different perspective all together....think to yourself that you dont care what people think of you and say what's on your mind...people will respect you more when you are yourself

2006-08-28 13:42:11 · answer #8 · answered by Cassie 4 · 0 0

when you have that problem again say: I am aware! I can do this!

2006-08-28 13:39:06 · answer #9 · answered by Jerdy 5 · 1 0

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