My girlfriend and I have been kicking the idea around about a MFM threesome. I think I would be into it but I'm not sure. Any suggestions? Experiences?
2006-08-28 06:18:41 · 18 answers · asked by Taddy 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
My GF and I have been condidering a MFM threesome OUT OF TOWN with someone neither of us know. Do you think this would help prevent the jealous reaction that appears to be the norm?
2006-08-28 06:41:16 · update #1
I think you would lose your girlfriend in the long run
2006-08-28 06:21:06 · answer #1 · answered by Faith M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I have had mfm fmf and then some
You both really must sit down and talk serious about this before you do it
You have to take into consideration each others feelings you may not think you'll be jealous but, after your feelings may change, and that can be a bad thing.
One of you may really enjoy and the other may not like it at all, and the one who really liked it may want to continue then what do you do.
There really is a lot to think of not just ok lets do it.
I have known couples that it has worked for and others that it has turned out in ways they never thought (not good)
Just talk and be honest and open don't lie or say what you think the other wants to hear
2006-08-28 06:28:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are serious I would say you should go ahead and try it out. My exboyfriend and I did it the exact same way. He wanted it and I agreed so we went to OKC and stayed in a hotel. We found a guy at the hotel bar who I thought was cute and he was ok with so we went for it. It's a long story really but I think you have the right idea if you really want to try it. Going out of town is easier since you both don't have to worry about running into them ever again. As long as you and your girlfriend know that you both truely love each other and know that neither one of you will ever leave the other then you are fine.
2006-08-31 16:10:13 · answer #3 · answered by megan4u5 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think threesomes are bad at all. Me and my fiance have been in a couple of them already and they really opened up our relationship. Yes at first my fiance was scared that i might run off with some other guy that we had over but as you can see i never did. In the end you have to keep an open mind about the whole thing and understand that it is only for fun and not for anything else.
2006-08-28 07:28:54 · answer #4 · answered by shellydolphin1978 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I have had 2 with 2 differnt girlfriends and the only advice I can give you is make sure your girlfriend and you are secure in your relationship, the reason is because sometimes the girl is cool with it at first but after it happens she starts wondering if the other girl was better and in the same respect for you if the other guy was better...so just make sure that no matter what you both understand that you are #1 in each others eyes
2006-08-28 06:24:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They can be, there has to be a lot of love and trust.
Your girlfriend may fall for the other guy! Proceed with caution, My best advice is don't do it, keep it "just a fantasy". This situation is best only, if you have been together for at least 2 years and there is an understanding "this is only sex", no love involved.
Think about it, "what if" this other guy is better in bed, and has more in common, with you wife than you do. Will they decide to see each other without you? Think about this before you go through with it. PLEASE!
Good luck...
2006-08-28 06:26:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of times this just does not work out.One or the other will get jealous and become angry.She may isolate you and not let you in,when the deed occurs.Then how will you know when she says she is going to the store or a Friends house,that she isn't going to see him.I believe in monogamous relationships.
2006-08-28 06:25:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u want 2 take a chance that 1 of u may want 2 be with someone else after its OK but how would u feel if your girlfriend left u for this other guy
2006-08-28 06:28:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could go either way. If you had a FMF 3way she could get jealous and your relationship could go south. In a MFM 3way you may find yourself extremely jealous. Tough call. best of luck.
2006-08-28 06:28:43 · answer #9 · answered by Gregg H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Could be very exciting. For peace of mind be sure the Men are wearing condoms.
2006-08-28 06:22:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋