I dunno, my best friend and I haven't been spending time together ever since he met this girl (his first). And I don't think because it's that he's "in love" (well, this could be very well so) or doesn't want to make time to spend with buds and only with his girlfriend. I think seriously that the girl is quite possessive of him, she hates me, and doesn't want him to spend time with me. How do I find out? Can I? Should I say anything? What should I do?
2006-08-28 05:59:03 · 8 answers · asked by euges116 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
it is really sad when boys get girlfriends and the girl doesn't like her bf friends and vice versa it should always be bro's before ho's!!! but chances are she doesn't like you! but it might be because she wants her bf all to her lil self! and she might think of you as a threat because what do guys usually do when there Chic's aren't around? Yah i know not all guys are the same but, that just might be the case here. how about the next time you invite your boy out do it in front of her and tell her to come along also that way she will feel like you must be a really decent guy to think of her too!
2006-08-28 06:18:55 · answer #1 · answered by notyochic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she thinks that you are a bad influence on him!! I mean if you two are really buds it should not matter what his girlfriend thinks talk to him first and see what he says then maybe you can talk to her and see if she likes you or not and if she says she don't like you then ask her why and find out!! Good Luck!!
2006-08-28 06:14:10 · answer #2 · answered by onesexyg18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to keep ur feelings to urself.. 1st of all ur gonna come off sounding jealous and just plain ole beat... who cares if she doesn't like u, she's not ur girl and u dont' have to be friends w/her.. u should raise ur eyebrows when she starts liking u.. let him enjoy his relationship w/her and u need to find a girlfriend to occupy ur time....
if she's bad mouthing u then ur friend will indeed speak up for u...
2006-08-28 06:11:36 · answer #3 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's possessive, she'll hate anybody that's important to him. You can't do anything about it, he's the one who has to act here. If he puts up with her ideas, you prolly won't see him until after their divorce.
2006-08-28 06:05:08 · answer #4 · answered by Paul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happens to everybody sooner or later. It's part of growing up.
2006-08-28 06:07:29 · answer #5 · answered by smoke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess he just wants to get to know her a little better,then get back with you.And if he's really your best friend,then he will eventually get the hint.(he'll get tired of her sooner or later)
2006-08-28 06:03:55 · answer #6 · answered by ♥LiL MiZ THANG ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont do anything now, things will get ok itself. dont worry.
2006-08-28 07:25:32 · answer #7 · answered by naturelover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ha ha!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-28 06:01:27 · answer #8 · answered by Pau 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋