ok... i know it's a long question, but please read...
My best friend died a year ago, i dumped my boyfriend cause he was always drunk, my parents don't talk to me and i feel like i'm all alone in this world... people don't respect me... i try to be nice to everybody, but everybody's mean to me...they're always talking behind my back about me, my "drunk boyfriend" and my "junkie dead friend"...
eventhough everybody around me was drinking or doing drugs to escape from problems, i never touched any of those things...
every day i think about swallowing some pills and kill myself... nobody would even know the difference... can anybody give me one good reason not to do it???
2006-08-28 05:48:36 · 24 answers · asked by Lizzie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i felt like that once... but i decided that i was gonna be strong!!
i'm very happy that you didn't do drugs or anything like that coming from an environment like that... that shows you're a strong person, capable of going through this whole this!!
you can't replace your friend, but you can find someone else to trust!
find out another man that loves you and gives you the security you need and deserve...
talk to your parents, they'll understand the situation you're going through and help you!!
go see a therapist, or someone you can talk to... it really helps!!
show to the people that work with you that you are a great person!
have you thought that you decide to do that, you'll lose everything good in this world?? don't you want to have kids one day?? get married?? have a big house in the suburbs and a labrador puppy??
think about this: it is not the end of the world.. and i hope you can see that before you hurt yourself!!!
2006-08-28 06:02:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go outside and look around you. Look at the beautiful sky and the flowers. Look at a child face! These are things that amaze and delight me every day!
There is not a single person out there that some other person will find fault in! Humans are very critical, unless I meet your idea of the perfect person then you can say bad things about me. I, and everyone else on this planet, are far from perfect! So someone will always find fault in you - you are too funny vs. you are not funny enough. You are a b***h vs. you are a strong woman. It all depends on the OTHER persons view of the world.
You are hanging out with the wrong people if you truly feel they are talking behind your back! Try not to care about what others think about you. And find a new group to hang out with.
All you can do is be a good, moral person. Do what is right. Treat others like you want to be treated. These things make you a good person no matter what anyone else says. And YOU know YOU are a great person!
From what you say about your best friend and the ex - sounds like you are a very non-judgemental person, you like to be with people who need you and people with issues to begin with. These are all good things.
Find new friends, maybe join a book club, or start roller skating. Join a support group for people with dependencies. Mix it up, do something new. Try to make friends with someone you never thought you could be friends with. You'd be amazed how many really good people there are out there.
I wish you luck in your journey! Taking your life is a one time thing, if you succeed, you will never know if you could have found a better life. You will never have a chance to try again. Don't throw away your chances and your choices!!!!
2006-08-28 06:24:40 · answer #2 · answered by Debi 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl, i know how you feel. In this past year, I have gotten divorced, lost all my friends, and me and my two kids are living with my mother who hates me. I think about doing the same thing everyday. but only in thinking about myself. I have to stop and think that although i have noone else out there i have my kids that need me. Life is very very hard. Some people have it easy and some dont. You may not have kids to look after and love you unconditionally but someone out there does. Try and work thru it. Don't look towards the future ok just try one day at a time, when you go to bed at nite whether it was a good day or bad day just smile to yourself because you were strong enough to make it thru that day. Your life will change but you have to make it change. I am working on that too day by day. Stay Strong you are better than the people that put you down. Unfortunatly you are an easy target but you will make it thru. Take Care.
2006-08-28 06:02:11 · answer #3 · answered by Mel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have respect for yourself, get away from drunks and junkies. Pick yourself up and get out of a bad situation. You must be strong, because you are not using drugs. Now be strong again. Be around people that are more like you. You must be a good person, you feel badly for these sick people even when they take a dump on you.
2006-08-28 06:08:43 · answer #4 · answered by I CAN SEE RIGHT THROUGH YOU! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Anyone who talks down like that on someone who is already dead, and especially was your best friends is not anybody you need to be associated with. Ditch them.
The only thing I can tell you is (if you haven't already) to accept Jesus in your life. Leave everything to him, and he'll help you through. Find a Christian church, and find some people to pray for you. Always know that God loves you, even if everybody else around you may not. Lean on Him.
2006-08-28 06:49:30 · answer #5 · answered by GJneedsanswers 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Now why would you even THINK about something so selfish and foolish? Here you have been so wise by NOT doing drugs and drinking and all that, but now you talk of doing the most foolish thing of all! I don't get it! I believe that you just THINK everyone talks bad about you. You have a lonesome spirit and look down on yourself, so you think everyone else is making fun of you and talking about you in a negative manner. Actually, they probably see what I see, which is a very smart, but very depressed person. Tell your folks or someone that you need to find someone to talk to. Call a preacher and set up a time to go talk to them. You NEED someone to hear you. You are much smarter than you think, and probably an inspiration to many.
2006-08-28 06:05:08 · answer #6 · answered by lcamel2000 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is "serious" Lizzie! Life is so worth living you can't give up! You just need to get away from the negeative things that are holding you back!You loose a friend to drugs , a boy friend thats a drunk and parents that don't give a damn if they won't talk to you! You seem like you know right from wrong. It's time to think of Lizzie. What do you want for yourself out of life? Write me at my email and I'll email you back! I don't know you Lizzie but "I care"!!!!!!
2006-08-28 06:04:31 · answer #7 · answered by noditz57 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The quickest pick-me-up when you are feeling down is to help other people out. Go volunteer time at the salvation army or the red cross. Buy a backpack and fill it up with food and toiletries and then pass it on to a homeless person. Do something to help another person in need and then you will feel atomatically better. I think the purpose of life is to help other people and to introduce them to God. Remember, you cannot receive love unless you give it away first.
2006-08-28 06:01:48 · answer #8 · answered by a g 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because you werent put on this earth to kill yourself. Dont listen to what all those pple say. I have the same problem but i learned to live with it. I even dumped some bfs and best friends becasue i knew that they were they cause of my unhappiness.. You might not think so but if you really think then you will think i am right. JUst listen to your heart and keep your head up high...dont let anything or anyone bring you down!!
2006-08-28 06:01:07 · answer #9 · answered by Jus call me "BUBS" 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah - you say you NEVER did it while they where around right ... so why do it when they are gone !
You are better then that and screw those clowns who think otherwise.
Hang i nthere and remember LIFE IS GOOD and you should enjoy it , having watched your friend die last year of an OD should have thought you that by now.
If you need someone to talk to find help if you want to just feel betetr about yourself find people WHO live as do you drug free .
If you want to chat and blow off steam , ask someone here to chat with ya.You never know what life will toss your way but best to be prepared and standing firmly on theground when that curve ball comes.
2006-08-28 05:56:16 · answer #10 · answered by Glenn T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋