Ok my friend was over to spend the night one time and i tole her that i had gotten my period. a few hours later she told me she had gotten hers and so i gave her a... and later she asked for another but the one that she used before came open in the garbage and there was nothing there. a few days later i was like "ok you didnt get ur period and i know" she was like "yes i did- i would get it at night" i was sorta confused. and now i went on the computer on answers and she had written a ?? that had words "i never got my period before" and this was 2 days ago she wrote this. Should i be mad at her for lieing? she always be-littles me too and shes better than me (or thinks it atleast). should i ask her about it?
2006-08-28 05:22:41 · 7 answers · asked by Jenna 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
if its like that she just jealous, when u get ur getting ur period it means ur maturing, she just wants to be as good as u, but forgive her, any way, watch when she really gets it, she'lll be disssapointed about how it really feels about getting ur period.
2006-08-28 05:28:45 · answer #1 · answered by Pau 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't want you to think less of her, as a "girl". Talk to her and let her know that she is "your friend"; even if she does not have her cycle yet! Let her her know that all girls mature at different times, some mature earlier than others, some much later. Tell her how it feels to be "Free" from having to "worry about the cycle every month. Most importantly Let her know that she is your friend, and that friends are honest with each other and don't intentionally "hurt" one another. Ask her how she would feel if you did it to her!
For some reason some friends behave badly towards each other at times, it's two different people who see things differently; "Their own way".
If you resolve this, then she is a true friend, If not; you do not have to have her over your house any more. Remember to be kind to her! Do not lower your standards to her level! You just don't have to hang around with her any more.
Being a women is not determined by weather you have the cycle! It is determined by how one carries themselves (honesty, truthful, respectful, and most of all "forgiving", this one is the hardest at times)!!
Pray and ask God to help you through this.
Good Luck, I hope everything works out for you.
2006-08-28 13:04:57 · answer #2 · answered by SAM 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, she just wanted to be cool, her period will come eventually, she may be jealous cause u have and she hasnt.
Its best to encourage her instead of getting mad at her.
I say, leave well enuff alone and talk about more pleasant things in life. Friends are hard to find these days, so respect her.
2006-08-28 12:30:19 · answer #3 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
she wants to be like you! getting a period is the first stage of growing up, she hasnt felt that yet and you have, she may feel that shes not as "adult" as you are, alot of girls look forward to having a period and think if they get it, then they are all grown up. Just let it be, its not really a lie...more of a wish i guess
2006-08-28 12:26:03 · answer #4 · answered by sassy2sloppy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ask her in a very nice way, what in the world is going on and why she feels she needs to lie, But I would definitely confront her...
2006-08-28 12:27:00 · answer #5 · answered by carrie_mathey 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She probably just feels left out because all of her friends have it and she doesn't. She should feel lucky not having to deal with it quite yet. I wouldn't ask her about it because it will just make her feel worse. She wants to have it because everyone else does.
2006-08-28 12:26:42 · answer #6 · answered by Jess 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
try to talk honestly to her, and ask her why does she feel the need to lie to you, her friend.
2006-08-28 12:28:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋