me and my boyfriend have been going together for 2 years.. the relationship is very serious.. we love eachother to death.. we even talk about getting married all the time when we get older (becouse we're both only 18 & 19).. anyway.. i gave him oral sex alot.. very offen.. but i had stop wen i realized he never did it to me.. that botherd me.. so one day after not doing it for along time.. i started doing it to him once.. and out of no where he fliped me over and we we're doing 69.. and he was so great at it.. wow.. for someone who never done it.. he sure was doing a good job.. why now?.. why after 2 years he finally decides to do it?.. could it be becouse he realizes if he don't start that this could be the last time he ever gets oral sex from me?.. could it be he was curious & scared.. he always played with me down there with stimulation but would never do oral.. untill now..
2006-08-28 05:16:08 · 14 answers · asked by u lovee it ♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He was practicing with other girls during those two years.
2006-08-28 05:20:22 · answer #1 · answered by festus_porkchop 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he has reached a comfort level with you and feels at ease going to lunch or dinner with you (SMILE). You did the right thing by pulling back on giving when you weren't receiving...that's a big NO-NO! Don't listen to those people who say that stuff about it's best to be an unselfish lover and give, give, give. That's bull! It's about time he gives you that satisfaction. There's nothing quite like it when it's done well. As for him doing a good job at it, don't sweat it. That's a plus for you. Just take it all in stride and enjoy it. You are young and have a lot of living to do and your sexual experiences will only increase. Maybe the 2 of you have reached another level sexually, that's good for both of you. Just enjoy yourself and don't do anything to him or with him that you don't feel comfortable with.
2006-08-28 08:50:40 · answer #2 · answered by intentionalmasterpiece 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl if he is going it dont question him. But to answer your question and this is only my opinion, he probably realized that you were slacking up on the oral and came to his senses. He realized if he wanted to be pleased down there, he had better start eating! And are you sure that was his first time? Maybe it wasnt. And who knows maybe the missed giving oral and just decided to participate in it again after 2 years! But just be thankful that he came to his senses!
2006-08-28 05:26:03 · answer #3 · answered by Ty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married for 26 years and when he does decide to give me oral pleasures, which he rarely does, I do not ask questions am just glad he did! Do not question a mans reasons why he does certain things just be glad he wanted to.We women need to stop trying to analyze men and why they ‘do the things they do’ there men and that is that they cannot help it.
2006-08-28 05:34:02 · answer #4 · answered by Ms Pollyanna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm...maybe he needed to figure out what to do and needed to do some research? I have to admit...performing oral on women isn't easy. But, it's a damn good time.
I say, who cares, and enjoy it!
69 rules!
2006-08-28 07:40:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF you have to have sex in the relationship; 69ing is about the safest way to keep from getting pregnant and be mutually satisfied just be sure to keep it clean ---Cant say why he waited so long to enjoy you but now that he does-- You just keep enjoying----
2006-08-28 05:31:38 · answer #6 · answered by Boomer T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are both maturing, but you still have a long way to go.
He has decided to be more giving when you are having sex.
So enjoy it.
2006-08-28 05:40:56 · answer #7 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there could be a number of reasons why he waited so long..maybe he thought it would be gross and when you stopped he realized that if he didnt give he would never receive it again..maybe he was to embarrassed to give it..or maybe he was talking to his buddys and they told him it was good to give it..dont worry about just enjoy it...hehehehe..
2006-08-28 05:30:27 · answer #8 · answered by bllnickie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why even question it, just enjoy it. Maybe he came on to YA's and asked around how to do it. :)
2006-08-28 05:40:56 · answer #9 · answered by windandwater 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares why? Enjoy it and tell him how much you liked it so he will do it again.
2006-08-28 06:41:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋