Do you forgive and forget or, do you hold a grudge?

Answer 1

I always say, if something happens & your not going to do anything about it, then forget it, but if there's a chance or your see an opeaning then go for it! I never hold grudges...........there are far more important things to be worring about.........ya feel me?

Answer 2

It all depends on the person. Like with my mother- in- law I hold a grudge just because I dont like her. With my husband I forgive but I dont forget. With my daughter I forgive & forget

Answer 3

Forgive but sometimes (not always) I can't forget. Depends on the severity of the offense.
Life is too short to hold a grudge and I believe the is always hope for reconciliation.

Answer 4

I can hold a grudge for years. Certain things are forgivable but there are just somethings you never forget.

Answer 5

Forgive? depends how bad the trespass was . Forget, no because you learn by experience. Hold a grudge? it never does any good so no.

Answer 6

forgive and forget life too short to hold a grudge

Answer 7

It depends . . . mostly I forgive; often I forget; sometimes I hold a grudge. But if the transgression is/was serious enough, I neither forgive nor forget.

Answer 8

I do forgive, and I don't hold grudges. However, I don't forget. If you forget lessons learned from past experiences they do you no good.

Answer 9

Always forgive, you can't forget, but never hold a grudge!!!

Answer 10

I find that I try and forgive and forget. Otherwise, anger can take over, and anger is one letter away from danger.
Besides, it takes to much effort to hold a grudge.

Answer 11

I would forgive and forget i beleve u should never hold a grudge