I am single and dont want to scare anyone off by being to agressive. I enjoy the freedom of being open. But I am afraid that if mr right comes along he might not be able to handle it. What should I do? I was thinking I could settle for once a day but then am I really being true to myself..Guys help me figure this out?
2006-08-28 05:15:30 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Today is your lucky day, I am the guy you have been looking for!! I love to have it at least 3-5 times a day.!!
2006-08-28 05:23:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, part of what makes him Mr. Right will clearly be that he will want it three times a day too. That was one of the big attractions for us when my wife and I first got together -- we had both been in relationships where the other person was sort of, "But we HAD sex yesterday, and you already want it AGAIN???"
In our case, we had been very good friends (each dating other people during college) for about three years before we finally came to the realization that we had a LOT more fun together than we did with whoever we were dating at the time. Eventually, the opportunity to go out as a couple (as opposed to going out as two people in a group of half a dozen college friends) came up.
One thing led to another, as tends to happen. We learned to our great delight that in addition to having similar senses of humor, similar goals and outlooks about life, and a deep friendship based on years of time doing things together and just plain LIKING each other... we had much more (and much BETTER, more varied, more creative and more intense) sex with each other in our first month than we'd had in total over the past couple of years.
So don't feel that you have to give up on your needs. Especially because there's new scientific evidence that women's sexual drive does decline after several years in a stable relationship, so get it while you still really want it. We've been married for 27 years, and while the frequency has dropped since those initial glorious days, the intensity has increased, and the closeness we experienced back then when we learned we were so perfectly matched has only grown stronger with the challenges of work, kids, and approaching middle age.
2006-08-28 06:07:34 · answer #2 · answered by Scott F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should only truly want full sex when there is desire for the person you are with. Any other desires are fanciful and unlikely to be fufilled. By talking numbers you make sex sound like is the same as taking a walk, which it aint.
Once a day is plenty for most people and too much for many of the remainder who prefer once or twice a week. Unless you are over 50 then its more like once every 6 months - if you are lucky!
2006-08-28 05:26:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Once you are being satisfied with a rocking, spectacular, intense, climax; your desire will decrease some. The problem is (if you can call it a problem) that when you think about how good it was the last time, it makes you want to do it again even though you might not feel you have the energy. The more a woman is pleased the more receptive she is to intimacy with a man again. You just need to find a good man and make sure he is pleasing you. Make sure you are getting yours or dump him.
2006-08-28 05:28:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not at all. The whole idea to having a good relationship is having a healthy one where each partner gets their needs met, if not 90% of their needs. Sex is a VERY important need. This is coming from a guy, but anybody (male or female) would agree.
2006-08-28 05:28:41 · answer #5 · answered by IrishGuitar70 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be too much for practical reasons - I mean, there's a lot of other stuff that goes on in people's lives that can get in the way of having sex all the time. I think, as long as your partner's desires are fairly close to yours, there won't be a problem.
2006-08-28 05:25:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
NEVER SETTLE FOR ANYTHING LESS THAN WHAT YOU NEED.
Period. There's a hundred million guys out there that would love the chance to be with you 3 times a day.
2006-08-28 05:24:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
find ur right mate who is more intrested in sex than u ! this is simple thing for being settled u have to cause a newborn baby need mom n dad... no mom is perfect no dad is perfect... so just settled down soon.... best of luck for ur mr. right hope he is sexiest male on earth for u only !
2006-08-28 05:28:38 · answer #8 · answered by forplay_afterplay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doubtful that any guy would have a problem with that, but there are exceptions to every rule.
2006-08-28 05:40:31 · answer #9 · answered by Sausage Fingers™ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone that's as sexual as you are. Nothing wrong with wanting it so much.
2006-08-28 05:19:40 · answer #10 · answered by geminiblue26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋