To all of you who are whining about your fat wives, all the fat wives of the world want to know how in the world you think your beer gut is attractive? You think a successful weekend is when you don't shower or get off the couch! So stop complaining about her and get your fat *** up and do something with her.
2006-08-28 05:13:59 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Right on sister! Totally true...
My husband has totally gotten a beer gut - and he keeps complaining that I'm gaining weight! I am actually LOSING weight u fat slob!!
2006-08-28 05:17:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
What is a man to do when his wife overeats and wants to sit around eating chocolates and doesn't clean house while her husband is working hard trying to earn a living? A beer gut is just as unattractive as a chocolate butt. An exercise program might be good for both of you. Try taking the easy chairs out of the TV room and installing an exercise bike or two.
Maybe you and your husband need some counseling, but remember it takes two to get into, and to resolve, this kind of interpersonal conflict. I recommend reading a book called Love Talk, together. It's a great book and may lead the two of you together, or at least into counseling.
As for housework, I'm doing most of it myself. I don't speak for all married men, but I'm addicted to clean. Not obsessive, but much happier when it's done. Flylady.net is a great resource to get started on routines. Including exercise.
He may need a little encouragement instead of all the berating. He may need to be pursued romantically in spite of your mutual issues. If you start, he may follow your lead toward being clean, exercising, and feeling attractive.
2006-08-28 05:26:48 · answer #2 · answered by writ_rrr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For better or worse. You agreed to love that fat slob. Work hard on your marriage or you could have to find another man who will look great for a few years and again end up a fat slob.
The shower and couch thing is just a means of depresion give that hotty something to not be depressed about.
No seriously, I really hold strong to marriage love him like you did when he wasn't fat and nasty.
Husbands are like children, Use reverse psycholgy. Tell that growdy man you love him so much use what ever tool works to your advantage.They are much like us women they need to feel like they look good and we care.
2006-08-28 05:22:02 · answer #3 · answered by Bears#1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We aren't ALL like that.
I don't have a beer gut. I workout 5-6 days a week (running, lifting, doing situps and playing hockey), I work out in the yard on the weekends. I take the kids to the park, do my own laundry, my own ironing, cook, clean, work two jobs and definitely do my part around the house.
My fat *** is up. However the ever expanding a$$ of my wife continues to either sit in front of the TV for hours on end, or wants to do ANYTHING, except something with me.
Please don't globally condemn.
2006-08-28 05:20:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You try to motivate your fat slob, Sasha, if you love him that is and he loved you and felt your love handles were not lovely anymore he would do his best to motivate you. I am not the fittest of men I am not fat just understand my six pack abs left me once college slapped me in the face.
Most men these days have a whole array of eye candy to compare you women to and even if he does not say it out loud in his mind he may want to have you look like jessica alba be it for a month it would make him happy.
I say you love the person no matter what but our minds have gotten shallow with everything on tv saying fit is the in thing. Personally a few extra curves is never a bad thing in my eyes.
2006-08-28 05:23:12 · answer #5 · answered by Shadow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh no you probably did no longer!!!! you are going to be able to desire to take a deep breath, calm down and get an entire life of your guy or woman somewhat of snooping on different persons. Play with fireplace - you're gonna get burned! and you probably did! You needless to say hate your loved ones and your "sturdy for no longer something husband" (your words, no longer mine) so why the hell might you pick the others to circulate and leave the two certainly one of you on your lives???? seems to me you pick all of them long previous! improve up, start up being well mannered and circulate on! heavily!
2016-09-30 02:19:35 · answer #6 · answered by lashbrook 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And your question is . . .?
If you want to be more unhappy, just keep thinking of your marriage that way.
If you want to fix how you feel, then do something. See a counselor, change your thinking, or leave him. But whining about it here probably won't change a thing.
And I can guarantee you that *I* wouldn't want to " get your fat *** up and do something with" you! You just don't sound like you'd be much fun to spend time with.
2006-08-28 05:18:14 · answer #7 · answered by LazlaHollyfeld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, even though what you said is humorous, I have to wonder, do you even love your husband any more? I know people who are not happy in a relationship start to knit pick about physical looks. It is a shame things come to that. I know my husband has gained 65 pounds since we got married, and he is chubby, but to me, he is still sexy as ever, then again, probably because I love him with all my heart!
2006-08-28 05:21:03 · answer #8 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Re-evaluate your priorities and try to figure out whether his being fat is so bad that you no longer love him, or whether or not in spite of his fat, you love him, the person. Then talk with him and begin to prepare meals that are healthful and tend to decrease carbs and fat. Then he will lose weight, and you will both be happy.
Chow!!
2006-08-28 05:19:31 · answer #9 · answered by No one 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fat slob, skinny Slob..... Most Men (poor lil suckers)
I would'nt be too concerned over a mans appearance.
My concern is how to get his stamina to go longer then 3mins without using viagra and drugs like that. LOL.....
Makes you wonder why you see more men wearing Glasses.
(Viagra causes blindness they say) LMAO
2006-08-28 05:23:24 · answer #10 · answered by Kathy W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋