my ex bf broke up with me but i still go to his house, wash his clothes with mine and cook him dinner. We still have s*x together. We talk everyday on the phone. We see each other once a week and the whole weekend. He told he that a girl from work likes him but she's not his type of girl so he won't go out with her. I ask him if he thinks that we will ever get back together and he say that he don't know and if he gets a new gf he don't want her to be jealous of him like I was and to be 21 so she can go to the bar with him and his friends i will be 21 in a year and a month. He tells me that if he don't have a gf that when I turn 21 we will go out as friends and maybe more.
2006-08-28 05:06:09 · 11 answers · asked by sexy nikki 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Why buy the cow when he's getting the milk for free?!
Stop being his personal maid?! and sex slave! WHY wait when you could be finding someone who wants to be in a relationship with you...he's USING YOU!! Stop being a door mat!! He's dragging you along until someone else comes and cooks, cleans and has sex with him..and then the daily phone calls to you will stop...so will you being around him the way you are now...You're not allowing yourself to be with someone who will appreciate you!
2006-08-28 05:18:52 · answer #1 · answered by just me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl, take the advise of an OLD person - run, run away as fast as you can. If he says you will go out as friends when you're 21....what's the matter with NOW? You say in your question you're sleeping with him already, so it can't be that...what's the point?
I spent 19 years of my life tied up with someone I didn't love, just because of one stupid night of passion...when I finally worked up the courage to leave, he couldn't believe it, don't waste half your life trying to please him only to find out that you've lost yourself in the process...there are lots of fish out in the sea, throw the minnow back and nab yourself a swordfish.
There is something fundamentally wrong with this person if you're good enough to cook for him, clean for him and sleep with him, but he won't take you out...who cares if you're old enough to drink or not. Stand up for yourself kiddo, before it's too late.
-Em
2006-08-28 05:19:41 · answer #2 · answered by emeraldseye 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he's using you and you don't even know it. He's getting some without the pressure of feeling attached to you and he's free to see or f**k other girls. You already broke up and yet you continue to sleep with him and be his maid. C'Mon, where's your self-worth? If you stop paying attention to him, he's gonna want you back. But he's not worth it. He sounds like a JackAZzZ for treating you this way!
2006-08-28 05:18:51 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding? Where's your sense of self worth? Get rid of this jerk! He won't be with you because you can't drink in a bar?? Yet you wash his clothes and cook him meals?? AND you give it up for him?? Honey, despite the rumors, there are men worth your efforts. I suggest you get out there and let one find you:)
2006-08-28 05:10:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are being stupid and need to stop this RIGHT NOW!!!!!!!!! He is using you and you are letting him!!! He sees you as a door mat with feelings that mean nothing to him and your letting him!!! Come on........ there are more guys out there and you are wasteing your time and feelings on someone that is totally UNWORTHY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Why would you do this to yourself? Your not going to get him back........ he has you where he wants you and you are allowing him to use you until someone (in his mind) better comes along!!!!!!!!! STOP this now while you still have some dignity left!!!! PLEASE............ BLessed be........
2006-08-28 05:12:14 · answer #5 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey, to all u ppl who answered this question, i jst wana say that im really surprised at how supportive and real url are when answering on yahoo answers. ive only been on for the last few weeks, and there are some genuienly nice ppl here!
2006-08-28 05:20:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he sounds lika a jerk, I would dump him because I think he is leading you on and it sounds like he wants you for backup incase that girl says no when he gets up the nervr to ask her. I would ask him chose you or the girl
2006-08-28 05:12:58 · answer #7 · answered by axels_nightmare_06 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
STOP TALKING TO HIM STOP DOING HIS LAUNDRY STOP HAVING SEX WITH HIM STOP ALL OF THAT AND JUST LEAVE HIM ALONE FOR A WEEK AFTER A THAT HE MAY REALIZE THAT HE NEEDS YOU AND LOVES YOU AND IF HE DOESN'T LEAVE HIM ALONE THERE ARE SO MANY PEOPLE IN THIS WORLD THAT YOU NEVER EVEN MEET SO MEET PEOPLE MAYBE YOU WILL MEET MR RIGHT
2006-08-28 05:31:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he broke up with u first means he doesn't love anymore.. he's just using u..
u deserve someone better.. besides how can someone open up about liking other person..? aren't u jealous??
2006-08-28 05:11:08 · answer #9 · answered by D_I_V_I_N_E 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You obviously have a complete lack of self confidence. Ditch this fool and move on.........NOW!!
2006-08-28 05:13:16 · answer #10 · answered by Jeremy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋