how to make my husband horney?

Question

what can i do to make my husband stay horney and excited while we're having sex?he just got excited in the beginning but then, he'll lose his focus. i am very devastated.how can i improve this?

Answer 1

Dirty talk always works for me. Also, role playing is FUN!

Answer 2

Talk dirty (tell him how good he feels, tell him to 'f*&k' you harder), moan, play with yourself (massage your breasts or down below), but most of all, let him know you're into it. IOW, if you tend to be the quiet type who just sort of lays there, he's going to lose interest after awhile. So you want to try to be the exact opposite.

Oh, I also agree about the foreplay before the sex. Waiting until you're in bed to go, "wanna do it?" is really a turn off and it gets old after a while. Tease him beforehand, throughout the day. I'm known to kiss my husband's neck, or run my fingertips lightly up and down his back while he's shaving (that always gets him), or slap his *** on my through the kitchen, or throw a sexual innuendo at him to let him I'm in the mood.

Answer 3

If he's in the mood at the time, then nothing and I mean not even a Bomb outside will break his focus.. If a person isn't truely in the mood, then no matter what , the mood won't last. No matter what you wear or Ext.... Your body will React when it's good and ready too.

Answer 4

communicate with her hubby properlly about this problem, cause may be some kind of problems of sex life can be derive easily with changes of night colths(for first move or for inspiration), nighlamp's colour, atmosphere of bedroom(its imp), can play or stop light much(making mood), before sex should be take bath(for freshness), n most of above all should be communicate properlly about ur personal sex need n what makes u horney... what r u desiering from ur hubby n what should be done for ur orgasm.... this all for ur hubby also....give n take respect to eachother for differen sex need of u both people. if u can take some good moves like above all i m 100 % sure u can have gr8 sex life.

Answer 5

Talk openly about the issue when he isn't attempting sex if you can...maybe it's erectile problems...does he smoke? Make an appointment with your doctor and ask for possible reasons, then talk to your husband about them. I hope you have an open relationship where you can talk...just be gentle.

Answer 6

My wife has this horrible penchant for making small talk during sex. Asking questions that particularly make it hard to continue.

#1, turn out the lights.
#2, turn off the TV.
#3 and a big one, don't ask questions about his job or health during sex for crying out loud!
#4, be responsive. It is hard to concentrate when you aren't getting any feedback.
#5, vary your position.
#6, oh ya, talk dirty, if that is what he likes.
oh and #7, how about ASKING him what he likes????

Good luck :)

Answer 7

Why don't you talk to him and find out what makes him hot. It is important to be able to communicate about those types of things. If you are too embarressed to talk about that stuff, then there are other things you need to work on first. Good luck.

Answer 8

dress up and play different roles such as put a wig on or play a game become like a sex slave that"ll keep him excited

Answer 9

Is he an older male? Sometimes that happens to men that are older, have high blood pressure(on medication) or they are having a lot of sex.

Answer 10

Instead of talking dirty, go with moaning & groaning.
Strippers have a language all their own...and it works.

Guys get really turned on when they feel like you are getting pleasure.

One more thing...tease him into sex, don't ask for it.

Answer 11

i had the same problem with my wife for awhile, then i found out the lack of focuse comes from ADD so maybe get him tested for that cuz since ive started taking meds my sex drive is incredible