My ex-boyfriend and I of a year and a half broke up 2 days agp. We broke up because I asked him how he felt about me when we were just sitting on the couch. I asked because all he does is complain about what he doesn't like about me. He took it one step further and added to the problem, which then he blew up. Last night he called all sweet and apologizing telling me that I should be able to say what I want and he should of never added to it. But then 15 min. later he blew up again and started his bitching (i.e.) how if he spent the next 20 yrs. with me he would blow his head off. I told him to not worry about that bc I had enough and then he text me right after that, which I refuse to read. I don't know what his deal is. Does anyone have any insight?
2006-08-28 04:46:09 · 17 answers · asked by Kit Katt 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If he is always bitching about you and complaining about what he doesn't like about you, then he has no respect for you. If he had any loving feelings for you he would say nice things too. What he is doing to you is a form of emotional and psychological abuse. I know, I had this with my ex. It grinds you down, destroys your self esteem and confidence and I think that is his agenda, because he is a weak man who needs to feed his ego by making you look bad. He is still playing games with you now that you have broken up because he wants to be in control. My advice to you is to run like hell away from this control freak otherwise you are in for many years of unhappiness. Go and find yourself someone who will appreciate and respect you, like I did. Happiness is out there for you. Good luck.
2006-08-28 06:06:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it was best for the both of you to end it. You shouldn't stay with anyone that is disrespect you or make you feel any less than you are. Somtimes guys have a way of expressing themselves like "blowing up" that sometimes women never can understand. I would give it a few days to let him and you cool yourselves down and then when you are both ready you can talk the break-up over with one another if you still feel like talking. Just make sure to keep your cool. tak it easy and Good Luck ;)
2006-08-28 04:54:59 · answer #2 · answered by Sugpie05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's some insight: he's a d*ck! Tell him to shut the f*ck up and then leave him!!! Make a big pile of everything that he ever gave you (not the good stuff) and make a bonfire. Then, go have rebound monkey sex. Then go shopping, get a pedicure, etc.... Life is too short to put up with some @sshole who doesn't treat you with respect. You don't have to listen to his bitching.
2006-08-28 05:00:44 · answer #3 · answered by badkitty1969 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start shopping around for someone who accepts you for who and what you are despite your or his faults. Life's too short to be fussin' all the time. Soon you'll understand the value of living instead of feeling guilty. Let him go.If you worth nothing more to him other than someone to b!tch @, then set yourself free. He's not gonna change until later in life
2006-08-28 05:17:22 · answer #4 · answered by gifted 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has he got money or work problems if not find yourself a new boyfriend, I am free tonight fancy a night on the town
2006-08-28 04:53:03 · answer #5 · answered by col 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like he really loves you but doesnt know how to show it and his way of hiding it all is in anger .try to give it sometime talking and working things out and if all else fails like the saying goes if you love something set it free and if it was really meant to be he'll come back .
2006-08-28 04:52:34 · answer #6 · answered by Broken 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like he will just continue with this over and over...stop talking to him for a bit, see how you feel not talking to him and then decide whether or not you want to talk to him again.
2006-08-28 04:52:44 · answer #7 · answered by Gavin T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like this guy is creepy. You should find someone who is going to treat you right and not blow up on you.
2006-08-28 04:50:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's got issues he obviously needs to deal with. Just ignore him and move on.
2006-08-28 04:50:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
its obvious hes got the problem not you and someone like that if i was you walk away plenty more fish in the sea
2006-08-28 04:56:28 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋