she was made to marry someone else who was nt nice and her marriage ended after15 days only.we still love one another a lot more than my life but how to make my family agree on our marriage.i want to marry her but she wants me to marry a girl of my family choice,i cant decide wt to do?
2006-08-28 04:27:14 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You know what It shouldnt matter what your family thinks. If your family really cares about you then they will stick by your side. Your family doesnt have to approve of it, it may take them time to adjust to it, but if your family cant be there for you and support your descions then they dont really care. I married the most wonderfull man.. Only knowing him a week we got married. We have been married 6 months now. His parents were surprized and were not all up for it, but they stuck by our side. His parents are there for us all the time, and we are all really close now. My parents, I dont talk to them anymore. Because they were totally against me marring my husband and didnt support me at all. And they have not only let me down, they have also let my sister down who is also getting married. ANd shes been with this guy for over a year! Both my sister and I have found our sole mates and we are really happy. Our husbands are our life. ANd if our family cant stand by our side, then screw them, its there lose on my wonderfull marriage and future grandkids. Sometimes family will take time to adjust or they just dont. But when you really love someone you follow your heart and be happy, and your family can go along with you or they dont. Their lose not yours.
2006-08-28 04:36:24 · answer #1 · answered by Piper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a riddle where nobody can help you. You are asking and worrying about the impossible. Whether her marrriage ended lawfully? If not, you cannot do anything. As per Marriage Laws, she has to apply for divorce, she has to wait for the court orders and it may take several years or atleast six months if the divorce is by mutual consent.
As the girl is also not showing any interest in you, better marry another girl of your choice with the consent of your Parents. When she is not interested, you cannot force her.
2006-08-28 07:17:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey it is you who has to live with the person you marry not your family. If it is the girl you love you want to marry well do and if your family dont agree to it now believe they will come around in due time. Especially when grandkids start to come into the picture.
Good Luck!!
2006-08-28 04:47:55 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both do one thing, just leave a suicide note at your home, and stay for sometime in a safe place. Your families member will worried and start searching everywhere if they loves you. may be they complaint to the police also. Through your friends made a drama of trying sucidie and just admit to the hospital and call your family members through your friends. After seeing you people on hospital bed, your family members will difinitely agrres for your marriage.
2006-08-28 06:16:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know your families choice and you hearts choice may never agree but do you really love her? I thought so, then that is all that matters. Our parents will love us regardless if we listen to them or not, they can't help but love us. From the first breath of air we took, our parents took an oath to love us no matter what. Deep down they know if it is love nothing they say will ever get in your way of being with someone you love, because if they reaised you the way most parents intend to, then they want you to marry for love instead to please them. They may not understand your love for her right now but as the years pass and bonds form, they will see how the power of love can infect ones heart. It is contagous you know....
Good luck to you
Jenn
2006-08-28 04:44:17 · answer #5 · answered by Army Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your feeling but don't regret. Oppose your family, its your life, its your choice. Sometimes its better to decide for ourselves rather other decides. If you really want to be with her, You will do everything. You will defend her from anything. You will give up your life. Just don't REGRET what you have done!
2006-08-28 04:33:52 · answer #6 · answered by rhanz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep working on your family and keep the girl. My father didn't approve of my husband at first. He didn't want me to have anything to do with him. I didn't lesson and told my father that I loved them both and was not going to give my husband up. It took time but my dad walked me down the isle and my wedding and was glad to call my husband his son. My dad has since died but I know that he was glad that I didn't push my husband away like he wanted. He went to his grave glad that I did marry my husband.
2006-08-28 04:42:19 · answer #7 · answered by sscott12414 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's not easy at all. Because of the people in America are either devoutly religious like me and the rest are atheists. Whenever I'm at work, i try to express my religious beliefs with my friends. Some of the people are religious like me and the rest are not.
2016-03-26 22:52:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down with your family and talk to them, seriously. Tell them how you feel and ask them if they'll do this for you. Don't try to manipulate them, just sit down like an adult and talk to them straight up. If there's one thing I can respect, it's honesty, even if my son tells me something I don't want to hear. Maybe even have your parents meet this girl if they haven't. If all you ever do is talk about her, it could sound like a silly infatuation to them, you know? Let them fall in love with her, too, IOW. :)
2006-08-28 04:44:18 · answer #9 · answered by I'm just me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your love is true then you should be prepared to face risks by opposing your families. After all it is your life, and you should decide how and with whom you should settle in your life.
2006-08-31 21:07:56 · answer #10 · answered by nadkarni_chaitanya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋