I have this friend and not a lot of people are nice to her, because she is really really obese. I was one of the few people who was nice to her. So, what do I get? A slap back in the face, ok, not literally, but she talks about me behind my back! So, I confronted her a couple months ago and we agreed not to talk to each other a lot, (and she denied it all and turned to blame me when i was nice to her) and that we were not really friends. Now, all of a sudden, she IMs me all the time, and Im number 6 in her myspace top 8! I really need help, I dont know what to do! I really dont wanna be friends again because I know she will just be as two faced as before. I think she really wants to be good friends again, and I dont want that!!! Someone help! Please! Im only 12!
2006-08-28 04:25:21 · 4 answers · asked by Sally 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I would be honest with her and tell her how you feel about all this. Sounds like to me she just wants to act like nothing happened. But it's hard to do that because someone's feelings got hurt and she shouldn't ignore that. Tell her the damage she has done and be nice about it and if you don't want to talk to her anymore than tell her you think it's best if you two don't talk cause of what she's done and she has made it hard to trust her. She can't get mad cause she did it to herself. If she is really serious than she'd try to earn your trust back within time. But if she gets mad about it then just ignore her im's and keep your distance. Pretty soon she'll get the point hopefully and maybe she'll take it as a lesson learned not to hurt the ones that care about you.
2006-08-28 04:44:09 · answer #1 · answered by babieshay27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u feel that she is a nice girl,u should speak.if u think that she is two faced person then my advice will be be far away from her.but u should also give her one chance,if then 2 she is a bad girl my advice will be not 2 speak.but listen 2 ur heart.my teachers say change ur friends if they r not good,but give them one chance.if then 2 they r not good be far away from them.
my advice will be give her one chance but if still she is not good be far away.all the best
2006-08-28 11:39:05 · answer #2 · answered by Vandhana93 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay aware from her...you know that saying that goes something like 'screw me once, shame on you, screw me twice, shame on me'??? Its bound to happen again, that's just probably how she is. and probably people are not so nice to her because of her personality more than because of her obesity.....
2006-08-28 11:41:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you don't want to be her friend then don't.If she treated you so badly she will probably do it again.Then it will be your fault for enabling her to.If she keeps bothering you tell her how you feel.If that doesn't stop her tell her parents.If they don't stop her.Tell your parents.If they don't stop hr.Call the police.
2006-08-28 11:37:07 · answer #4 · answered by paulofhouston 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋