2006-08-28 04:20:50 · 29 answers · asked by Angela 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maybe you should tell her and its a little silly you dint know this before you married her!!!!
Hello
2006-08-28 04:26:23 · answer #1 · answered by pete 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I don't know how young your wife is. If you married her right out of her parents house she may not have the wifey skills yet, which is natural. She needs to get use to the idea that mommy or even a housekeeper isn't there to pick up after her anymore. She will catch on after a while. Tell in a very nice way, maybe show her that you both will have to work together to clean up.
good luck
2006-08-28 04:34:16 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
. am the same my husband goes mad at me. i do think its to with the way you're brought up. My mum moaned at me as a child about keep my room tidy . Also am a full time manageress in retail and coming home to do house work its not nice all you want to do is put your feet up . am mean i do cook an evening meal too and on my day off i want time to myself because i have 3 children to all i can say is help her my husband helps me lots we call it team work .my husband lol puts all the thing i leave out on my bed so i cant get in it lol.and if i put it on the floor lol he places it in a black bin bag and that does work good look
2006-08-28 04:37:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure that she does really. Maybe she just doesn't want to. Perhaps she is lazy or just tired after a long day at work. Why not sit down with her and sort out who is going to do which job and when? With some kind of rota I'm sure you will get things back on track. Good luck!
2006-08-28 08:54:06 · answer #4 · answered by matt52 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im the same, im staying at my boyfriends house for a bit, and as much as i respect him and love him, im just so damn messy. Its cus im lazy.\\
People who arnt lazy... pick up after themselves.
People who are and who dont have much energy, or are very busy, dont have time, or just cant be bothered.
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Try and tell her how much it frusrates you.
Or
My boyfriend bought a big plastic box, and wehenever i take something off, or chuck something on the floor, i put it in the box instead, that way the rooms still clean, and i know where everything is if i want to find it, and i can still be messy.
You should try it. it really works.
2006-08-28 04:25:39 · answer #5 · answered by Bob 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, an agreement needs to be made because ground rules have not been established. It may be that the ground rules she is following are those that require her to subordinate everything until trust and honor are promised.
2006-08-28 04:26:08 · answer #6 · answered by Shelia H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck, everybody male or female should be able to pick and tidy up after themselves, that really annoys me, untidy people, tell her to, talk to her. good luck........
2006-08-29 07:40:20 · answer #7 · answered by donua1022 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop moaning about it,you got some tidying up to do,have fun.
2006-08-31 03:20:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it that she wont tidy up after herself or that she wont tidy up after YOU? Hmmm?
2006-08-30 04:16:27 · answer #9 · answered by Stacy R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are we married to the same Wife?
2006-08-28 04:23:22 · answer #10 · answered by Pete T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋