My "X" best friend that i had known for 4 years killed her baby in which i was the godmother of...THEN after she is already in jail and I cannot do anything about it I find out she tried to sleep with my man while i was at work, while my fiance was picking me up from work, in my work parking lot...now ladies...gentlemen...should i let this go...or wait til she gets out of jail and do some old fashioned confronting....new york style?
2006-08-28 04:12:16 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
YES IM SERIOUS...my man did get with her though
2006-08-28 04:17:29 · update #1
Her name is teri whyte from auburn ny if you wanna look it up online to see the info
2006-08-28 04:18:12 · update #2
I'm sorry to hear about the baby that is so sad when there are so many women out here who desire to have a baby. I'm not her judge or jury to say anything about this young lady. God will deal with that matter as for your's let it go she has to live with killing her child and believe me she will be punished for the rest of her life. Who told you about her and your fiance? A woman can't do anymore than a man let her do to him. Think about that. I know that you are highly angry. You are still with the guy even though he could have approached her 1st so just let it go. Apparently, you won in the end cause you aren't about to leave this guy so just let go and let God handle the rest. Vengence is mine sayeth the LORD!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-28 04:21:26 · answer #1 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honey...take my advise...If your man cheated on you he isn't giving you the type of respect you deserve. I don't know how long you've been with this person but leave him because if he did it once, he'll most likely do it again. I'm telling you from personal experience.
As for the girl chances are if she killed her child she hopefully won't be getting out of jail any time in the near future. Even though it won't do any good you can either 1. Let it go (which would be the adult thing to do) or 2. You can write her a letter or you can visit her at jail. Although I'd just leave him and let her go too...Everyone deserves better than that....
2006-08-28 04:33:29 · answer #2 · answered by Ginger 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was you I'd try to put her out of my mind completely and hope that she never remembers you when she gets out of jail. Or better still, never gets out at all. Because she has no respect for you as a person. You should not, under any circumstance, confront her. She is out of your league. I'm not sure what new york style confrontation means, but if it involves weapons, i would avoid that idea too :)
2006-08-28 04:24:51 · answer #3 · answered by Magina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the main suitable element which you're able to do for the sake of the toddler is tell your husband the certainty approximately what befell and which you had no intentions of injuring him yet on the comparable time, you have been harm over the certainty that he cheated on you with yet another woman. as a result, he ought to forgive you, if he's a real guy and not carry this completely against you. If he would not than , he wasn't genuine from the beginning up and than you and your toddler ought to circulate on... As for the different guy, tell him to place off for a mutually as until eventually the delivery of your baby in view which you're already below sufficient rigidity and you ought to repair issues out alongside with your husband. you ought to do what's nice for you and the toddler. Are you nevertheless in-love alongside with your husband?
2016-10-01 00:07:32 · answer #4 · answered by minick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's a total sicko so nothing wise will help here. I wish you to stay strong & keep the faith + dump ur crazy man who can sleep over with a baby killer. I vote 4 NY style
2006-08-28 04:18:49 · answer #5 · answered by Sandy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can understand you anger, would probably feel the same in your shoes, but there is obviously something seriously wrong with this woman. Let it be....from what you've said, she didn't sleep with your man, she's serving time for what she has done; have nothing whatsoever to do with her and get on with your life.
2006-08-28 04:19:07 · answer #6 · answered by snowfoxx71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, she's in jail so obviously karma kicked her a*s either way. Don't let it eat at you because she has gotten what she deserves. Just remember that and move on. And your man is just as much at fault as the other woman - dump his sorry a*s.
2006-08-28 04:18:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep her an "X" best friend. Leave her to suffer in jail. Why would you kill your baby? I'd take a look at the boyfriend also and dump his behind.
2006-08-28 04:18:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Walk away while you have some dignity left. If your "man" would even consider having a relationship with her while he was supposed to be with you, then he is on her level. Don't lower yourself. Make a new life without any of them.
2006-08-28 04:15:55 · answer #9 · answered by Teacher 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if this is all true, that is like the most depressing answer i've answered on this thing. killed her baby? wtf? im glad shes in jail.
i take it that she tried to sleep with your bf before she went to
jail. either way, she's a waste of life and shes getting what she deserved I say let it go, ecspecially of your bf didnt do anything with her, she sounds like a waste of life
2006-08-28 04:18:55 · answer #10 · answered by Jenster*is*flipping*you*off 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋