well i have been with my boyfriend for almost seven months and all we have been doing is fighting. He finally got a job and he is working about six days a week. I hardly get to see him and all he says to me is how he thinks that i don't want to see or talk to him. I work too i don't always have time to go out of my way to go and see him he doesn't even go by my work to say hi or something. then he acts like it's all my fault. He says that he really loves me and when i graduate in 2007 we are going to go and get married. I'm 17 and he's 19. I'm starting to get tired of his insecurity of me not wanting to see him. What should i do?
2006-08-28 03:58:46 · 10 answers · asked by shortyrosas2007 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Tell him the truth, be open with him. Its much better to understand each other, good communications. Tell him what you want and ask him what he wants but be ready for the answers. Avoid fighting, respect each other.
2006-08-28 04:04:51 · answer #1 · answered by rhanz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me i just got out of a relationship just like this. Exactally like this. Break it off with him. here is why? Do you think that either one of you can truly be happy in a relationship that only consists of fighting. No but because it was good in the beginning you think i can go back to the way it was it cant so move on and at least continue to be friends if at all possible.
2006-08-28 11:03:05 · answer #2 · answered by LT. DAN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...Shortie I really think that you should talk to him about this. Tell him how you feel and ask him how you feel. Maybe both of you should ask for the same day off and just go hang out and spend time together. If he still feels the same way after that then you really have some thinking to do.
2006-08-28 11:21:51 · answer #3 · answered by Cindy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems to me you are asking for premission to leave him . You stated .... I work too i don't always have time to go out of my way to go and see him he doesn't even go by my work to say hi or something. ..... this shows me you have made up your mind and are sick and tired of trying to wor kthings out.So wh yare you making excuses whe nyou should be moving ahead with your life and traveling the road without this guy.
You have made it clear you fight and you dont want to be around him all the time , so why are you still with him ?
Say bye and let him go.Life is too short to play stupid games like this , enjoy it and find new people to have fun with.
2006-08-28 11:05:08 · answer #4 · answered by Glenn T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young to begin thinking about limiting yourself in such a way....seven months is nothing in the larger scheme of things. I feel at my age, I have seen certain things again and again and one of them is young people thinking another can supply them with all they desire, but this is not true, only we can do for ourselves. We need to depend on ourselves because most of us came into this world alone and thats how we leave too. It sounds to me like the two of you trying to spend the rest of your lives together, in sickness and in health, for richer or for poorer, for better or for worst may just cause you both unnecessary grief....my advise is to live a little, travel, go farther in school, do what you need to do to make yourself the best part of Creation you can be, because when you do this you help Creation to be its best. your actions will fullfill you....good luck
2006-08-28 11:13:25 · answer #5 · answered by l00kstwice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me that the best thing for the two of you to do is to separate.There is way to much stress here already.Your 17 he"s 19.You"ve got your whole lives ahead of you.If it"s really meant to be who knows,maybe you"ll get back together in the future.
2006-08-28 11:13:14 · answer #6 · answered by porkupuss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u have to get married already? why not wait a while to make sure he is the one?
2006-08-28 11:01:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE. Don't put yourself through that. It will NOT change. Believe me, you will be so, so,so sorry if you stay with this guy.
2006-08-28 11:02:21 · answer #8 · answered by blondee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new boyfriend.
2006-08-28 11:01:41 · answer #9 · answered by cinson1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do make the mistake of marrying this guy, please please please don't make any babies.
2006-08-28 11:02:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋