Most the girls find difficult to adjust. How do they cope up with changing body development and social obligations.
2006-08-28 03:54:01 · 6 answers · asked by shruti_kalpna 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Every adolscent goes through this stage.When your body is going through so many changes, you at times feel unwanted,irritated & frustrated.Even i go through that at times.This makes people around you scold u,ignore u.It effects your relationship with people but with time everythig gets back to normal.It is very normal for adolscents to go through this.
2006-08-28 04:10:10 · answer #1 · answered by live_let.live 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Adolescence is a boon. Everything is a first in experiences Energy levels are high. ‘On the top of the world’ feeling persists and sometimes the very opposite. The doubt persists and seems to be eternal. Should I or should I not is the refrain always. The search will be mostly for a response acceptable to others, and not the one that comes from within. Trying for a role model to copy from, is the easiest way, but keeping off the wrong models is a big problem. But no regretting for mistakes, for they are not mistakes really; they are just experiments. After all everyone above your age passed that stage. There are some trillions of your ancestors and billions of elders who passed that stage. No young person should blame himself or herself for the biological changes and consider oneself not being the reason for such phenomenon, as the “You’ also consists of a psychological profile (there too you are partially responsible for the brain and mind) and that ‘ you’ should gear up for a promising mental facelift that is best possible with the given resources and time. Yes, it is the only thing that is in your hands as adolescent. Time is short, yet there is no hurry. Time passes at different speeds for different people, it is relative (ask Einstein). Society demands speed, but you know it has proved itself as the slowest of engines in the history of humans at their best. So be yourself and all the very best on that score.
2006-08-30 21:45:47 · answer #2 · answered by seshu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing of the sort.
They get advise from their mothers during adolescence.
It is natural to every girl and boy.
Time is the solution.
They will learn by themselves after some time to adjust each and everything.
This is happening because nobody discusses openly on such matters, including parents. Boys and girls also do the same thing.
Everybody should know about their anatomy. Go and get such books from book shops and make your self knowledgeable.
There is nothing to hide and seek.
2006-09-01 10:49:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahh... yeah, girls usually feel the need to fit in... they often either reserve themselves or go way too bold... i've personally seen girls go from tomboy to a sex-craved maniac in a year of adolesence... this is b/c they find what they can do to get the type of attention they seek... also the recipical is true.. they sometimes go from out-going to shy and quiet... this is b/c they feel more accepted if they change and be something different...
they usually cope by either changing themselves or hating themselves... the social obligations are crucial to an adolesence behavior... they usually feel the "have-to" to be something different b/c they feel the need to be what the world wants them to be...
2006-08-28 11:34:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She feels curious about looking & behaving & getting responses like adults. Human adolescents r poor pple on earth as they lose the nicest days to have sex. So all the problems crop up. Obviously.
2006-08-31 15:10:20 · answer #5 · answered by Janaki J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop worrying about it and also stop comparing your self with your colleagues or friends nature will take care of everything
2006-08-28 12:17:22 · answer #6 · answered by nadkarni_chaitanya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋