I am kind of young and I have a boyfriend but my mom doesn´t let me have one. Well, the people that live near here (our neighborhood) are nosy and whenever they see my mom they tell her oh your daughter and her boyfriend and those kinds of things...My mom has aked me to tell her but if I do I know she will never let me see him again...What can I do so she doesn´t find out and that she doesnt doubt anymore..PLEASE HELP!
2006-08-28 03:30:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
She does think of him as my friend and she knows him...She knows I will go out with him when I am big enough ....Its just that she says Im too little to have a bf....Im just scared everyone will get against me and tell her evrything then I will not see him until I am like 19 and Im 14 yes I am too young.....
2006-08-28 03:44:52 · update #1
She knows him , she doesnt hate him she actually likes him the only only thing im concerned about is having her find out Im going out with him and then getting all pissed off....Daddysgirl I do understand what you say....
2006-08-28 04:04:54 · update #2
go what your mom want...
you cant have a relationship that your parrent disagree...
it will make your relation with your bf even worse.....
just wait.. you'll get the time when you can have a boyfriend...
2006-08-28 03:49:45 · answer #1 · answered by ultima_skyline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I am not sure how young is kind of young. Your mother is concerned about you and for some reason, when we are young we don't see it that way. Since you are hiding him, this will make your mother wonder more when she finds out. How old is the guy? How are you all getting around? Trust me, you will see one day and you will understand what your mother is trying to do for you. Don't you know that what you do when you are young carries over with you when you are older. You don't want to ruin your reputation at a young age. Always be mindful of the name that you make for yourself and your character. Concentrate on your education and be determined to be something in life; then you will be able to choose who you want and not have to be chosen. I hope you understand what I am trying to say..........
2006-08-28 10:51:20 · answer #2 · answered by DaddysGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you right now...this is not a battle you will win. Your mom probably has other people besides just those one neighbors that are spying for her..
You say you are kind of young...not sure how young that is but my guess is your mom is scared of you doing something that you are not emotionally prepared for. She really isn't doing it to torture you, only because she cares about you.
2006-08-28 10:34:36 · answer #3 · answered by empress_pam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sympathize with your desire for a boyfriend even against your mom's wishes. There's no help her for your problem. The solution lies with you and your mom.
In the meantime, here's a little something to work on. If you depend on a boyfriend (or ANYBODY else for that matter) for happiniess, you will forever be dissatisfied. Boyfriends, girlfriends and and others are great but depending on them for contentment and happiness is leaning on the wind.
2006-08-28 10:51:16 · answer #4 · answered by DelK 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your mum. Try to explain it to her. This would be the best thing. If she comes to know it by chance it will be worse. So, talk to her. Give her your reasons and ask her to let you see your boyfriend. Maybe you can even introduce your bf to her, so that she knows him and this way you reassure her.
Don't hide it from her. One day she is gonna learn about it.
Good luck
2006-08-28 10:55:27 · answer #5 · answered by atrabel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring him round to your house as a FRIEND. Tell your mum he is just your friend and that you are not interested in boys right now. Then invite him round as a friend, and let her see he is not a threat. Keep your relationship quiet for a while and slowly ease her into it. Tell whoever is sticking their nose into your business to BUTT OUT!! Be happy x
2006-08-28 10:37:57 · answer #6 · answered by Sophie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋