Let me ask you a question....Could you be with someone that always lie to you? Even though they never did anything to violate your relationship.....But when it comes to their past they always give you a different story....Help me out...Is that normal for women......Because it bugs the hell out of me....Well talk to you later.
2006-08-28 03:18:25 · 17 answers · asked by sam a 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Excuse me? To the people that said her past is none of his business, I beg to differ. Of course, he shouldn't be overly preoccupied with her past, because it is just that. However, if someone is constantly giving you different stories about their past, and changing what they told you time and time again, then you definitely have a cause to be suspicious. It would be like you really don't know who this woman is, and constant lying and story changing, is cause for a red flag. Who knows what she may be hiding? Proceed with caution, and maybe ask her why her story about the past never stays the same. If it is something that is painful to her, then like someone said above, just reassure her that she doesn't have to tell you until she feels comfortable, or unless she wants to, and that you won't judge her. Let her know that you love her for who she is now, but that the constant changing is worrying you. Good luck.
2006-08-28 03:34:14 · answer #1 · answered by LibraT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well at 25 and being someone with a not so great past, I haven't always been honest with the people I was dating because I felt it might make them think bad of me and I didn't want that. People tend to judge other people and when someone changes their life around, they want to be seen as the new pwerson they are, not as someone they used to be say at 18. Everyone does stuip things.
Now that I am in a serious relationship, before I even started it, I put 100% everything on the table for him to know so there would be no lies ever. Things that noone knows and that are not something guys want to hear that their new love interest has done, but i'll tell you what, it was an experiment, but it worked and we are gettng engaged soon.
Good Luck
2006-08-28 03:27:51 · answer #2 · answered by lynswil_25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lying is a violation of trust. If there are conflicting stories there is a deeper and possibly dark reason for this. If she can not be truthful about her past, it may be she is ashamed, or she may be blocking something painful or may not want your passing judgement. You must let your girl know that whatever she did was past, and that is where it will stay. (that is if you want to be with her). She just needs a little reassurance.
2006-08-28 03:25:11 · answer #3 · answered by ymeany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is not just lying, she is twisting the past and you know that she is twisting it. No, i would not stay with someone who would lie to me, wheater about his past, or the present, a lie is a lie.
There is surely something smelly if she always gives a different version of her past. What other things can she be lying about. and maybe you are so focused on ther lies about the past that you are missing the lies in the present. What other things can she be lying to you about? Move out. There is no future in a relationship build on lies.
2006-08-28 03:28:46 · answer #4 · answered by trushka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are getting diiferent stories from your girlfreind maybe she has done something in her past that she is ashamed of and don't know how to say it or just confront her and ask her whats going on that the stories are'nt adding up you decide??
2006-08-28 03:35:52 · answer #5 · answered by keishahayes2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask yourself if she is lying about her past what else is she lying to you about? Lying to someone is a BIG deal. You can't trust them. No matter what. Get rid of her and move on.
PS Lying is a violation of your relationship.
2006-08-28 03:22:21 · answer #6 · answered by cinson1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mines the same....... well not really, just never tells me the full story until later. Just a girl thing I think!!
Should be honest though if it changes fully, something aint quite right, just ask her straight!!
2006-08-28 03:24:44 · answer #7 · answered by itsneverfloppy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-14 13:27:11 · answer #8 · answered by vanpelt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her stories are conflicting because she has "Bones" in her closet she doesn't want you to know about. I'd just cut the cord with her. Nobody needs a liar in their life. Losers they are.
Peace.
2006-08-28 03:29:03 · answer #9 · answered by Gasman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
r u sure that she is lying to u. may b sumthng very pathetic that u r not trusting had happend but ne ways if really r not convinced abt her then their is no point continuing bcoz this may hamper sum part of ur relationship.like if u runable to trust her on this little thng then what abt sumthng big, so its bettre to thnk and b happy then to b nastic and repent
2006-08-28 03:22:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋