how shud i knw hez a gay i mean to ask how shud i confirm hiim being a gay?
2006-08-28 03:05:45 · 23 answers · asked by nazy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
guys its just that i want to confirm.i will definately maintain the freindship with him but still how to confirm is it thru any of hiz gestures????
2006-08-28 03:11:00 · update #1
What does it matter is the real question. If he is gay does that mean you won't hang out with him? Does that mean he is not the same person you thought he was. I don't see that it should make a difference if he is gay or not, as long as he is a good person and treats you right.
2006-08-28 03:08:28 · answer #1 · answered by cinson1999 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does it matter? Will it make a difference in your friendship? Does he know he is, why would you think he was - or are you just speculating. If you confront him - he may get angry with you. If he is gay, and you are a true friend, he will let you know in time... be supportive, as I'm sure you'd like him to be towards you if he thought you were a lesbian.
2006-08-28 10:09:11 · answer #2 · answered by Forgiven 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have in the past mistakenly thought some men were gay then to y surprise i met their beautiful wife's and family's.
just because of there gestures doesn't mean a thing just be his friend if he is gay he will tell you eventually
2006-08-28 10:21:17 · answer #3 · answered by eaglerock60 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm if he's gay...what does it matter to you? will you stop being his friend if he's gay? just flat out ask him...unless you are doing it to be hurtful and to criticize his behaviour then leave him be. If you asking just to let him know that it's ok and you think it's nothing for him to be ashamed of ...then go ahead and ask him. Just make sure you let it be known you aren't gonna look down on him for that.
2006-08-28 10:10:06 · answer #4 · answered by Hooligan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He'll tell you when he's ready. It takes alot of courage to tell someone for the first time. Just keep supporting him and being his friend, it'll come out eventually.
2006-08-28 10:12:50 · answer #5 · answered by mand 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is it any of your business? Maybe you should put as much effort into learning the english language as you do into finding out who people like to have sex with.
2006-08-28 10:08:03 · answer #6 · answered by ~Gate~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for one, dont say someone is 'a gay'. a person 'is gay". if he's your friend, and you've been a good friend to him, he will eventually trust you enough to talk about it. what gender he prefers romantically is really only his business and shouldn't have any bearing on your friendship. good luck and good friendships!
2006-08-28 10:10:28 · answer #7 · answered by Eos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does it make a difference
2006-08-28 10:08:32 · answer #8 · answered by Happy1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you find it necessary to confirm anything? What difference would it make to your friendship?
2006-08-28 10:08:06 · answer #9 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well with that. I say its always good to just say it.But don't just throw it out there do it very smooth and it'll seem less harsh.If he's not and gets offend then just apologize and keep it movin
2006-08-28 10:08:54 · answer #10 · answered by leanthony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋