my husband has a son with this other womanwho he is not allowed to see.. and he would never tell me why she left...so i looked her up and called her. i was 9 months preg at the time and i needed to know what happened b4 i went and married this guy..
2006-08-28 02:56:31 · 10 answers · asked by danielle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Nope just figured you had to do what you had to do. BUT remember there's usually 3 sides to a story. Hers, his and what really happened.
2006-08-28 03:01:00 · answer #1 · answered by JoeP 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remember, everyone has the idea that they are right in a relationship gone wrong. I doubt this woman could be objective in discussing what happened with you. If there are legal issues as to why he can't see the child, that is all public record, so you may have some avenues there. Honestly, if you feel you need to do this checking up, you have some doubts and don't trust him completely, so there is no reason you should marry him. It sounds as though it's doomed to fail right from the start - sorry
2006-08-28 10:09:46 · answer #2 · answered by buggsnme2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have a right to know but he should be man enough to tell you so that you don't have to sneak around behind his back to find out. Although he's probably afraid you'll leave him if he tells you but then again there might be a legitimate reason for that.
2006-08-28 10:01:21 · answer #3 · answered by walkingdisastr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did i matter what happen with the ex? He's with you and you should be able to ask him about it. How did he react when you told him about this? I'm sure that he was upset!! I know that I would be! The trust factor was just broken there.
2006-08-28 10:02:17 · answer #4 · answered by truckmama_34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would of done this before now. Now you have a child with him. So what did she say? I don't think the "intimidated" would of been the word I would of chosen, more like "threatened."
How do you feel about the iformation that you found out?
2006-08-28 10:11:34 · answer #5 · answered by cinson1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think based on the circumstances I can't blame you for being curious. But if you are doing this, do you really trust your husband? That might be a bigger issue.
2006-08-28 09:58:47 · answer #6 · answered by tannedknight45 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause you should have trusted him and you didn't So now it's always going to be an issue in your marriage.Accept the fact that you were wrong,apologize to him and learn to trust him and his decisions.
2006-08-28 10:02:43 · answer #7 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, u shld hav done tt be4 marrying him. nows too late cus if she tells, ure in deepshit.
2006-08-28 09:58:36 · answer #8 · answered by gweneth lynn paltfeir 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u right but a little bit late
2006-08-28 09:59:16 · answer #9 · answered by Maro's mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course not it is the past
2006-08-28 09:58:45 · answer #10 · answered by 185 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋