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how did you cope or were you not able to?

2006-08-28 02:29:16 · 13 answers · asked by Seth.G 2 in Health General Health Care Other - General Health Care

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you sound like you wish to reach out to someone and no one is there, that is horrible feeling. you have been their for others and now you need someone yourself, there is no one there. it doesn't help that your thinking is not straight, and this made worst when people just don't answer email, phone calls or text. you don't help yourself by showing one face to the world and other to yourself, yes crying may help, but is not a cure.
what ever the cause for you feeling completely isolated, you need company, i know easier said than done.
i would say to anyone who is feeling like this you need to talk, don't cut your friends out of the loop, true ones will help, and try and help someone yourself, that should help you to feel good about yourself, there will always someone there for you, but it will be the person you least expect.
take time for yourself, but remember you are not island.
how did i cope i gave the some advise to someone, and took it myself, but someone held out a helping hand too.
remember you are the best thing since slide bread, and people may think more of than you know, i know that to be true now, so if it is true for one then it is true for you.

2006-08-28 02:56:30 · answer #1 · answered by DARLENE C 3 · 0 0

Yes, but as I have learnt, this can actually turn out to be a good thing. Use the isolation to power your search for true happiness. This (the isolation) is not the end of the road, but the beginning of something truly wonderful because you are starting to ask the right questions that will eventually lead you to a life of freedom, joy, personal power and, ultimately, abundance. Reading the right books helped me a lot but it's not the only way. The important thing is not to give up hope and think that life always has to be like this. Good luck!

2006-08-28 04:03:22 · answer #2 · answered by Omma 1 · 0 0

Not only felt like but was completely isolated. In the north Canada mountains. Just me and no one else for many miles. Then again I feel isolated many times when with a bunch of people. Both are scary.

2006-08-28 03:21:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I had a time when I felt that I was totally isolated. It was when I was 13. I feel that I wasn't as lucky as my friends were. I could do nothing but cry and cry all day long.

2006-08-28 02:35:03 · answer #4 · answered by youngwoman 5 · 0 0

yes when my mum died, although i have a very loving husband and kids, i just felt so alone i mean your mum has always been there hasn't she you don't think of them dying especially when its sudden, but things do get better you have to try and deal with it, whatever that reason for you feeling isolated is, and talking does help even tho you can't be bothered, do things to make you feel better, whether that is shopping new hairdo whatever, then you will find things will gradually get better, you could always take kalms tablets, they are herbal you can get them from most chemists, when my son was being bullied at school i gave them to him they just make you feel less anxious and able to deal with everyday things, hope you soon feel better good luck

2006-08-28 05:50:31 · answer #5 · answered by bluebell 4 · 0 0

Many times in my youth, except that these were self-imposed (didn't want to talk or interact with anybody, just read by a corner not caring about anything or anybody else). I just read, that's how I coped.

2006-08-28 02:37:09 · answer #6 · answered by Bummerang 5 · 0 0

Yes. I'm still alive, so I did cope. With my situation, I was in an abusive relationship & he drove almost all of my friends away. He's gone. (Moved, not dead)

2006-08-28 02:36:51 · answer #7 · answered by shermynewstart 7 · 0 0

im isolated all the time but thats the way i likes it, just have to accept it

2006-08-28 02:38:32 · answer #8 · answered by nuclear farter 3 · 0 0

This happens a lot, sit down and write down your feelings. Think about those that you love and what another day might bring.

2006-08-28 02:34:50 · answer #9 · answered by churchls0904 3 · 0 0

Yeah, they circulate away me feeling remoted, depressed and reflective--greater so than widely used. I have no kin in this state, and the few buddies I had left all moved out of city this previous summer season (for his or her very very own motives, no, i did no longer run them off...they made advantageous I knew that). i think of it is in simple terms that we've such countless of those issues lumped mutually--Halloween, Thanksgiving, Christmas then New twelve months's Eve, into the Day next twelve months--and it is all interior the lifeless of wintry climate in depressing climate it is a soreness to handle by utilising your self. and quite a number of alternative of those vacations are approximately "gotta be with buddies and kin, gotta social gathering, woo hoo, gotta be "perky" or something". it is in order that pretend. like it is all paid-for and the next day human beings circulate back to being trolls and haters. Like, peace in the international and goodwill in the direction of adult men--364 days out of the twelve months it is seen "political correctness" and a few mortal sin in accordance to Fox information and the Yahoo! information trolls in reviews, yet nah, _one stinking day_ out of the twelve months, truthfully all human beings's like "carolling" and all happy and crap. No. One stable, human day a twelve months would not make up for a twelve months'S properly worth of sociopathy. you purely comprehend that on the twenty 6th of December that individuals are going to circulate precise back to their greed, their hoarding and hating and baiting and insanity. No. it is pretend. it is not genuine. It does no longer something _FOR_ individuals. those vacations are all approximately reinforcing the cliques--making advantageous the interior human beings stay in, and _definitely_ making advantageous the exterior human beings stay OUT. briefly: Bah, Bah and Humbug I say! >_< A pox on your properties and your sea coast properties and your _Shower Curtains_.

2016-10-01 00:01:17 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0 0

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