i am 21 and they where 19 and 20 . i didnt do it at t he same time but in the same day . i really want to have a baby and accordint to baby med i was very fertiel that day . what do you think ?
2006-08-28 02:21:09 · 22 answers · asked by cynthia0767 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
by the way i have known both men since we where in grade school . its not like they where randon
2006-08-28 02:26:16 · update #1
by the way . i have only been with three men my whole life . i am a month from 22 . i am not a hoe .
2006-08-28 03:16:55 · update #2
better advice than this please
2006-08-28 09:45:16 · update #3
What a wonderful environment your child will be brought up in. Not knowing who it's father is and a mother that doesn't care who it was. We've become a country of single mothers raising future single mothers and baby daddies.
Doomed. We're all doomed.
2006-08-28 02:35:58 · answer #1 · answered by lunatic 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Ok first of all, I am not going to judge you like others have, You on here to ask a question that you would obviously like an answer to. I think diffrent sperm do matter. Some people are simply not compatable with one another. I was married and we tried to have a baby for years, we tried everything!!!! Then we split and I met someone new and BAM I'm pregnant!
But when it comes to men, all of them that I have ever known are immature, chicken sh*t punks, who run from responsibility. They dont want to work or have a darn thing. Majority of them do not have a clue as to what being a father figure would involve. They cheat and lie. So if you want a baby, then go for it! Chances are a man wont be able to hang anyway, they are most certainly the weaker of the two sexes!
2006-09-03 14:46:06 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is horrible. You are way too immature to be bringing any child into the world! To answer your quetion some men like women are more fertile than others. Do these men know you want to get pregnant and you don't really care by who? Most men this age are far from capable of helping to raise children little alone in an economical position to do so sufficiently. I have two children and had my first unplanned at 25 and it is a huge job and responsibility. You need to put more thought into this insane plan! Go to school and do something productive! You have plenty of time to have a baby!
2006-09-04 07:16:05 · answer #3 · answered by anjelahoy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
various it relies upon on in case you comprehend your equipment or are prepared to spend the money on try kits so which you comprehend once you ovulate. For the 1st technique you somewhat need to understand once you ovulate using fact while you're off by using too lots you will omit the window for concept. i individually pick to have intercourse each and every 2 or 3 days. That way i understand i won't omit the thought window. Sperm will stay in a woman's physique for 3 - 5 days(i think of) so intercourse each and every 2 - 3 days could save the sperm count variety up interior the physique so whilst ovulation occurs the sperm is there waiting to fertilize it. That became what I did as quickly as I conceived my first. i'm now TTC #2
2016-09-30 02:12:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, I am so not going to throw the first stone as others have but I do want you to know that even though you think what you have done will not affect you, it will. It time it will. I understand that you haven't been with many men but either way, haveing sex with two men in the same day shows no respect for you. I mean, you need to love yourself. Think about this, what if you are pregnant and you have a daughter. Would you want your daughter to have sex with two men in the same day? If not, then why are you doing it? Now, with that being said...I have done it before. I have had sex with two men in the same day....actually, I have done worse than that (won't go into details). I am just not here to judge, I am here as someone who has been there. I have done so many things like that to myself and regret them all. As matter of a fact, I was about your age. I really had no idea what I was doing then. I thought it was just another thing that wouldn't matter. Well, it did and only by the grace of God have I been delievered by all the pain that it caused. Now, as for your question. I think that it does make a difference in the sperm but please know that what is meant to be is meant to be. One day, if you want a child and it is God's will, you will have one. I pray that you find one good man that knows what you want and is willing to walk the journey with you. He is out there but as long as you are just looking for a sperm doner God is unable to provide you the man you need. I hope that I have helped and if I have offended you in any way I apologize. I will pray for you. ~Dawn
2006-09-04 17:15:18 · answer #5 · answered by dawn_ch_believes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way that having sex with 2 different men will increase your odds of having a baby. In fact, they'll attack each other so there would be less chance of getting pregnant. (Learned that on Discovery Health) You think you want a baby, but you need to put more thought into it than that. Do the men know you're trying to get pregnant? And do they know about each other? What would you tell the baby if you did get pg? DNA tests are no way to find out who your father is.
2006-09-04 09:24:26 · answer #6 · answered by ♥N,K,E&DJ'§ Mommy♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably have the same chances as if you only had sex with one man. I agree with the other answers, you are too immature to raise a child. Even under different circumstances, you're only 21, you should be enjoying your young adulthood. A baby is not a toy or a pet, you can't just leave it alone to go hang out with your friends! PLEASE grow up before you bring a baby into the world!
If it turns out you are pregnant, consider adoption.
2006-08-28 02:32:06 · answer #7 · answered by Rwebgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this is going to sound harsh, but I think you have no business having a baby. If you are sexually involved with multiple people, that says to me that if you do get pregnant you won't know who the father is and that you are not in a stable committed relationship with him.
You have no idea how stressful it is to raise a baby under the best of circumstances, let alone as a single mother. I suggest you wait until you are more mature.
2006-08-28 02:28:15 · answer #8 · answered by tarheel mom 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
by the way you really should take a spelling course. Your attitude tells me that you are much too young to have a baby, wanting one and being a half way decent parent are two different things. So after this baby is born who is going to support the poor thing? Who is going to be taking care of all of the medical costs involved with a pregnancy?
2006-09-02 19:54:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is some scientific evidence that the sperm from the "first donor" actually will attack the sperm from the "second donor", making the chances for conception from the "second donor" less likely. If this is your pregnancy stragety, I would suggest you wait a few days between your "donors" to maximize your chances.
2006-08-28 03:23:34 · answer #10 · answered by Jeffrey S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋