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2006-08-28 02:14:12 · 18 answers · asked by Lori K 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think that this could lead to problems in the future. You will have to consider so many things. Like Is you husband open to this? Will the biological father be involved? Explaining this action to you future child. And so many more questions. This action could destroy your relationship with you husband. Is a child More important, than your relationship?
2006-08-28 02:21:12 · answer #1 · answered by angeleloves 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a highly personal question that depends on the marriage. I don't think it's wrong to find someone to father the child (sperm donor) if that is agreed upon by the two of you. Are you referring to making a baby "the old fashioned way" with another man? As a married woman, I would consider that cheating, unless you have a very open relationship with your husband. How does he feel about it? Would he rather adopt? If this is a serious question, definitely consider his feelings, as marriage is a partnership.
2006-08-28 09:20:49 · answer #2 · answered by GreenEyedSista 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No i think u and ur husband should have a baby together, MEANING.. u shouldnt have one "with" another guy, if u need to have a sperm donor thats one thing, raising a child with another guy is another.. and if he doesnt want to do that, then u could adopt.. but to have a 3rd party actually be actively involved with ur child no.. u need to be parents just the 2 of u.. with out any outside interference..
2006-08-28 09:24:47 · answer #3 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only if you go through a sperm donor bank or adopt a child. These ways are perfectly legal and understandable. Also you can try foster care as well. However if you go out and cheat on him with another guy to get pregnant...that is unfair to your husband. If you BOTH choose to go ahead and do this, I would encourage you to consider going to a sperm bank instead. Talk to your doctors.
2006-08-28 09:54:15 · answer #4 · answered by Erica, AKA Stretch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are talking about have sex with another man to have a baby, then it is wrong. You and your husband need to discuss the issue and possibly try to use a sperm donor for artificial insemination.
2006-08-28 10:14:48 · answer #5 · answered by jacemo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
H*ll no!!!!! How would you feel if the situation was reversed? If you couldn't have kids, and he had a baby with some other woman??? And don't lie. It'd bother you as it would any normal woman. If you're stupid enough to not know the answer to that question, do the world a favor and don't breed!!!
2006-08-28 09:25:55 · answer #6 · answered by T.G. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need another guy, go in for invitro fertilization from donated sperm from a donor you choose. Sleeping with someone else even if it's just to have a baby is cheating! It will ruin your marriage.
2006-08-28 09:23:08 · answer #7 · answered by hummingbird 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it is not. There is always adaption or even the invetro. If you love you husband then you and him need to be talking about how you are going to have kids together. Talking is the key!!!! Good Luck!!!
2006-08-28 09:21:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
that is definitely not right...you have to talk about it what the both of you want. u can adopt or if you don't want him anymore coz he can't have kids then divorce him, so u can have a baby with another guy
2006-08-28 09:18:13 · answer #9 · answered by dede 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to discuss your options with your husband but having sex with the other man would be a bad idea. There is always the sperm bank if you wo want to have children
2006-08-28 09:19:34 · answer #10 · answered by alex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋