the wife shows she trusts him and just takes care of him, herself and the home (mainly just goes about life like everything is ok) even though he may not be doing the right thing behind her back?
2006-08-28 02:04:53 · 10 answers · asked by Skypride 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
it depends on a guy.not all men are trustworthy no matter how nice you are or your doing your responsibility as a wife still some man looking for something to the point that it will ruin the family.im not saying all men,still there are some man that theyre going to makes you special and appreciate everything that you do for them
2006-08-28 02:14:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You cannot avoid issues in your marriage. If you do the resentment will build to the point where you hate him, and he'll not even know why because all those years he was crossing a line in the sand you never drew for him.
Both parties in a relationship has to let the other know where their boundries are and the other has to respect that. Part of loving someone is that their happiness is essential to your own. The exception to this is if one parties happiness would harm the other.
If there is stuff he is doing that you are not okay with then you need to talk to him about it. Notice I sais "talk", not "confront" or "accuse". Sometimes a counselor is great for this because it adds a non-involved referee, which using friends or family are not "non-involved", they will take sides.
In short, you need to talk to him about anything he is doing that makes you unhappy. You, on your part, need to draw that line in the sand for him. If he never knows where it is he'll never know he is hurting your feelings.
2006-08-28 02:16:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. A relationship takes two people. He also has to consider your feelings. The things he does right or wrong also affects you.
Financialy, sexually, emotionally, ect. The two of you are as one.
Their are so many factures that couples have to constantly work on. Everyday is a choice, And you also him has a choice if you choose each other or not. Satisfaction in a relationship will wear down and feeling/ urges of a complete relationship will become a desire.
2006-08-28 02:15:34 · answer #3 · answered by angeleloves 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you ar enot happy with the situation then it not right. Need to talk to him about it. Life to short to be on the side lines.
2006-08-28 02:40:45 · answer #4 · answered by ron 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No start taking control of yourself. If you know he is doing you wrong.
If i may ask what area do you live in?
For example concord North Carolina
2006-08-28 02:14:59 · answer #5 · answered by needsx47 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 00:00:18 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you can't "buy" his loyalty by anything you do or don't do (within reason, of course). He either is true or he isn't. If she has suspicions, she owes it to herself to be vigilant, watchful, and inquisitive--if it's what he's doing is important to her.
2006-08-28 02:32:51 · answer #7 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to tell him goodbye
2006-08-28 02:14:26 · answer #8 · answered by Doreen A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a big NOOOOO! lose the jerk
2006-08-28 02:08:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO
2006-08-28 02:07:40 · answer #10 · answered by Ms understood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋