My live in boyfriend and I are splitting. We just grew apart....Although this isn't a hideous break up with screaming, wailing and hard feelings, I know I am going to be down for quite a while.What is there to look forward to about being single again?
2006-08-28 01:41:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He's going to be here till the end of the week or so, to get his paycheck, wrap up loose ends and say goodbye to people we know. It's surprisingly civilized.
2006-08-28 01:56:42 · update #1
Obviously your life hasn't been happy to this point as you are splitting. You haven't said how old you are or how long you've been together....the dating world out there is horrible! If you enjoy doing a hobby or want to learn something, now would be the time to do this to keep your mind busy until the healing process is finished. Concentrate on YOU for a change, spoil yourself with something you've wanted to do but never did.
2006-08-28 02:27:12 · answer #1 · answered by hummingbird 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you were married you haven't stopped being single. What is there to look forward to. Open your door and see that there is a big world out there for your taking. You need to decide what you want to do and do it. You don't have to worry about a boyfriend and you can do what ever you wish.
Your going to be down because of not seeing him or talking to him. It a loss and you need to use time to heal.
But! Get out there and meet people and do things. Who knows you just might find your true love.
Have a great new beginning.;0)
2006-08-28 09:03:35 · answer #2 · answered by Mit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your time will be your own again; you will meet old friends or you will make new ones. No need to visit friends and relatives, clubs and restaurants you don't like but you will find new ones to explore. His defects will no longer bother you and your house will be in your own order.
Listen! There is always a bad time after splitting, when you must adapt to the new "after" situation, but don't worry! It will go by and you will find your way again. Be patient and try to meet new friends everywhere you can. Don't exclude anyone from being an acquaintance and -perhaps- a new friend. Don't forget: there's your new life calling you !
2006-08-28 08:55:12 · answer #3 · answered by ngiapapa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out even if you feel bad. When your not looking is when you have the best chance of finding the right person. Guy get more interested in the mystery girl then the others they want to know more about you. You just be polite don't tell them anything about your self and don't make a date to see him. There will be more coming
2006-08-28 09:12:57 · answer #4 · answered by robert d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww sweety I feel for you. Want to find the person of your dreams and be Romantic at the same time. You can preview my book. It might perk you up. I love to cheer people up. You can do better. One rule is Dont expect to much or to less of yourself. You can do better. If this guy was meant to be he will be back. Read a preview of my book that may help with any feelings you have of dating. Always be Positive.
2006-08-28 08:48:57 · answer #5 · answered by girl176a1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Mollygog
1st i really salute you for this courage you r dealing with separation prob in a very logic way :)
Then let me tell you that you have the whole life a head of you... hobbies , learning new stuff , studying, traveling, and setting a new goals for the coming days ... so u see "the sky is ur limit dear"
Best of luck dear Mollygog
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2006-08-28 08:49:28 · answer #6 · answered by Clark794 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well when i was single i liked being able to do what i wanted, when i wanted, how i wanted, with out having to worry about someone elses feelings, answering to someone else, or having to watch what time it was..
Being single has it perks..
2006-08-28 08:57:59 · answer #7 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can look forward to doing whatever you want when you want...having all your time for yourself. Enjoy it as the right one might be coming along soon
2006-08-28 09:00:35 · answer #8 · answered by Issabella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all the different schlongs you get to slip inside of you
and the free rinks and dinners at the local bars and restaraunts
and no one to check in on you all the time asking where you have been
2006-08-28 08:44:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will get to explore and find someone who fills your needs better than the ex
Good Luck to you and God Bless!!
2006-08-28 08:45:48 · answer #10 · answered by msqtech 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋