have no problem with their husband viewing porn regularly? How many DO have a problem?
How many watch it themselves, and although they would prefer that their husbands not watch it, don't feel that they have room to complain?
-j.
2006-08-28 01:36:54 · 20 answers · asked by classical123 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think that husbands shouldnt view porn.. and im sick of hearing the lame excuse "all men do" , or "its inate in a man to want to" thats such B.S. what good can really come out of looking at women that ur wife will never be able to be?? mostly due to airbrushing in mags and alot of cosmetic surgery lol.. why make ur wife feel like less than special?? Your spouse is suppose to be the One and Only one for you, they are suppose to be on the pedestal that no other person can every touch in your heart, mind and soul.. thats why u chose to marry them and be with them forever.. and last time i checked the marriage vows didnt mention Porn.. in them.. And not all the time, but ALOT of times in this day and age, porn is just the start of a craving , then when that gets boring a person steps it up a notch, to a point that they are balancing on a dangerous line of possibly cheating being the next step to satisfying their sexual craving for another.... Now if its something a married couple decides to do together thats their choice.. their arangement.. but i dont see how anything good can come of taking away from your spouse something thats suppose to be totally devoted to just them.. i think in the long run it does end up causing alot of problems.. and insecurities..
My oppinion if u need to look at other people naked then u need to stay single.. because thats not what marriage is about..
2006-08-28 01:50:24 · answer #1 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have a problem with it, because it degrades a woman to nothing but her figure and face . Which was given to her from God and a good cosmetic surgeon. Not to mention that looking at porn is lust and this goes against the ten commandments. I cannot understand why a woman would want the entire world to be looking at her private parts. Or why you would want someone watching do things to yourself or other people sexually. This was a pleasure created by God for a husband and wife to become closer to each other more than anyone else in their lives. To have people watch you do this or to have people watch you do this is just really raw.
2006-08-28 08:45:02 · answer #2 · answered by curiosity 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I watched it with my boyfriend. He makes me feel secure enough so that I'm not threatened by it. Most women want to hear that you love their body just as they are- and that you'd never stray.
It's just a toy. Guys are turn on by visual/women by emotional.
We used to watch it together and joke around- now, it all seems the same and I don't watch it- my back is to it. We rarely watch it
now. But, I can talk to him openly and tell him that I don't really want it on tonight and he'll respect that. He tells me I'm sexier, anyway.
But, that's us. We're talking about you. You are married and you need to respect your wife. People get divorced over stuff like this.
"Don't have room to complain?" What's that? My way or the highway? That's not a marriage. You're not being fair to your wife.
Porn can be an addiction. You said you regularly watch it. I'd say you'd be better off taking your wife out to dinner, and working on the emotional side of your relationship. If she doesn't feel threatened by other unrealistically perfectly airbrushed plastic barbie dolls with no morals, and knows you love her and want only her, maybe she'll be more inclined to watch it. - Laugh openly about it. Get old porn and tell her that they are your parent's age now. Get porn that's more for women with an emotional plot. But, agree on it, before you buy it.
If she doesn't like it, she may feel betrayed by you. She could divorce you because of it. A judge would listen, so you are treading on thin ice. Is it really worth all that? If you had to choose between your wife and porn, then you have a problem with porn.
2006-08-28 08:56:34 · answer #3 · answered by Linda S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
porn is something that me and my husband watch together. I do watch it on my own and my husband doesn't mind. He it when I take care of myself and wants to know how many times. It is not something that we do all the time. I do it more by myself and not all the time. Most of the time we take care of each other.
2006-08-28 08:42:55 · answer #4 · answered by sscott12414 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will answer for my wife, she doesn't and prefers that I don't. Also looking a porn on the computer is wrong according to her. I look some but not so much and never when she is around.
2006-08-28 08:40:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not see the problem with watching porn. It gets us both in the mood.
2006-08-28 08:41:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont care if my man watches porn or not.Its just a fantasy.Who cares.And yes i watch porn with him at times.And guess what are sex is better afterwards.So obviously this isnt for the frigid people.
2006-08-28 08:42:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women feel that men viewing porn in some way means that they are not capable of satisfying them.
2006-08-28 08:41:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be more likely to watch porn than my husband would. He's very reserved.
2006-08-28 08:40:04 · answer #9 · answered by T Time 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a christian....I would have a huge problem with my man watching porn.
2006-08-28 08:39:47 · answer #10 · answered by A Christians Honest Question 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋