why do most women like bad guys?

Question

Is it the sex, the "I can change him attitude", what? and why does it take women heartbreak after heartbreak to figure out what it is they want?

Answer 1

Why do guys choose materialistic fake women that will never love them???

All humans want what they cant have, want to change those that dont want to be changed. To say all women are stupid is too broad a comment. Most women need a challenge. Its animalistic behavoir for male and female species to have certain roles.. i think this scenario plays out as much in nature as it does in the human world.

Answer 2

I love bad boys but would never never date one. I think they interest me because they are willing to do anything and are never boring. And yes women like to nurture and think they can take care of them and change them. Wrong!
I personally don't want the hassle they bring but they are great to look at and fantasize about.
Not all women go through heartbreaks after heartbreak to find what they want. If these are the women you date find some one who is mature. I won't play these games.

Answer 3

Change him? Why bother, if we like him that way. Theyre fun, exciting, usually (the way I like them) powerful, courageous, and the whole domineering thing is sexy. And its only a myth that theyre 'bad'. The so called 'bad boys' I meet, when with me are smart, funny, giving, and nice to spend time with. The whole 'bad boy' thing is usually a front for thrie boys, theyre never like that alone. Trust me. Relationships can break your heart regardless if hes considered a 'bad boy' or not. Talking about men who treat women wrong are a whole different question. Why do women go for guys who treat them bad, couldnt tell ya. But 'bad boys', Im all over it, its not the same. An a** is just an a** bad boy or not

Answer 4

Do they
I dont think so. Maybe young girls like bad boys but not when they are grown up
Grown women know that bad boys grow up to be bad men and we dont need t hem. Drunks and abusers and heartbreakers do you really think that women are so stupid
There are the shallow girls who like to be seen with good looking men--- good or bad--because they think it makes them look popular but they grow out of it eventually,
and why should a "bad boy "make sex any better than a good boy . I dont know where you got the idea but you couldnt be more wrong. Unless of course all you know are shallow girls.

Answer 5

No.

It is a way for a good girl to live dangerously, without the actual risk. We all live vicariously through others...

It's a way to experience being a bad a s s without actually being one.

Why does it take so long to figure out? Some people are slow learners!

Answer 6

Most women like drama & excitement in their lives. And I also think part of it is the "I can change him attitude" like you said.

Answer 7

Well I wouldn't say most women like bad guys.

I think most women like men who are hard to catch. You know the type. The one who acts cool and like nothing matters to them. Those are the men that women find attractive.

Answer 8

not all women do, but yes i know some do. the ones i dont understand are the ones who get beaten by thier husbands and stay with them or the ones who know there chidren are bieng abused but do nothing i cant answer that, and im afraid i cant answer your question

Answer 9

I think you hit it right on the nose....its the challenge. Its the thrill of keeping up with him. I used to be that way myself....but I learned that its so much better when you have a man in your life that treats you with respect.

Answer 10

It's the "taming" of the wild beast thing... just like why chicks love horses! And I laugh everytime I hear one of them b-itch about how bad their relationship is, lol!