secret relationship with the same sex
2006-08-28 00:58:03 · 22 answers · asked by renzo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes
2006-08-28 01:01:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is no issue here, definitely the answer is no. How can you be good if you are not living a straight path. You are cheating to your wife and yourself for having secret relationship. Try to think what will the world say to you and your kids if the world find out your secret. You have already chosen your identity when you got married. Stick to it and respect your vow. Thats the time you can be called not just a good father and husband but a GOOD person.
2006-08-28 08:17:09 · answer #2 · answered by simplegal170905 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can a liar and a cheat be a good husband to the unsuspecting woman he promised to forsake all others for? No.
If you need to have secret relationships with men, then you are gay, not bisexual. Even gay men can perform with women, but it doesn't make you bisexual.
Being a good father doesn't have anything to do with your sexuality, it has to do with your character and ability to self sacrifice for the good of the child. Many gay men are wonderful parents, but they don't pretend to be heterosexual to do it.
Do your wife a favor, and get out of her life. Allow her to have the time to find someone who loves and respects her. That is not you.
2006-08-28 08:08:31 · answer #3 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you quit the secret relationship and be a good husband too, then yes. There is such a thing as having urges you do not act upon. Please consider counseling too, if you or your friend know of a good counselor for dealing with this issue that is.
You don't want to be the reason the kids can't trust people, do ya? Good luck....
2006-08-28 08:04:11 · answer #4 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good husband no.. cause in order to be a good husband it means u have to live by ur vows everyday for the rest of ur life and that means only giving ur self to your spouse, now technically yes i suppose u could be a good father, but how good of a father can u be if your not teaching ur children how to be faithful in a marriage??????? if u wanted to live a bisexual lifestyle then u should of stayed single, but since u chose to get married , u chose to only give urself to her.. so ur not being a good husband or father at this point if ur cheating...
2006-08-28 08:03:32 · answer #5 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good husband...definately not...secrets means there's something not right.
Good father...maybe..depends on what you plan to teach your children about relationship, but usually they learn from what the see....so if your relatrionships are not in order, good father is not either
2006-08-28 08:56:41 · answer #6 · answered by Issabella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,and you can without the secrets. But you have to talk about your feelings with your mate.They have a right to know and you be better off cause you no longer have to live without the lies. It's time to come out. Good luck to you.
2006-08-28 08:03:48 · answer #7 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not be having ANY kind of "secret" relationship with ANYONE if you are married. You obviously do not care about your wife's feelings and if I were her and I knew you were cheating...and with a man....I would be pissed!! Think of your daughter as a teenager and her finding out...do you honestly think she would be proud of you? You really need to set your priorities straight here!!
2006-08-28 08:03:33 · answer #8 · answered by Tiffany 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Negative
2006-08-28 08:01:52 · answer #9 · answered by EL Big Ed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sexuality shouldn't interfere with your parenting skills so yes, you can be a good father.
If you're having a relationship with someone other than your wife and she doesn't know about it, you're NOT a good husband. And it's not because you're bisexual - it's because you're a cheat.
2006-08-28 08:02:27 · answer #10 · answered by Avid 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋