Mu husband showed me a video record using his mobile phone of how i was behaving in a total drunk situation(i was wasted and moaning) this is the 2nd time he does it.Before that he recorded me when i was driving as my temper becomes bad. y would he catch me at very ugly moments is he trying to make me hate myself? how would u analyze his intentions?
2006-08-28 00:52:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well how rude!!!!! i would be totally PISSED off. really angry.....why? who knows, he may think its funny, or may want you to change???? maybe he feels better about himself by putting you down? i dont think he wants you to hate yourself but derrrr of course you feel bad....tell him, ask how he would feel (men dont feel, they think). Good luck but dont take it laying down...fight back, tell him to STOP IT!!!
2006-08-28 00:58:55 · answer #1 · answered by fireopal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's either trying to show you how you change cause you don't think you do, or he gets a kick out of picking at you when your not at your best. If this is the case he has very little respect for you and the two of you need to talk about this before it becomes a Major problem.
2006-08-28 01:17:18 · answer #2 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess, he wanted you to feel ashamed of yourself (your actions) when you behave like that and become out of hand. Seeing yourself wasted when drunk and how ugly (sorry) you look when you lose your cool would give you second thoughts next time, right? Your husband cares enough that he wants you to change & have self-control, and be responsible of your acts.
2006-08-28 00:57:02 · answer #3 · answered by Muffin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's trying to show u how ur acting.. people tend not to see how wrong they can be sometimes unless someone shows them.. so i think he's letting u know how u really act in certain situations, and if u hate yourself for it, hummmmmm maybe u should change ur behavior then , not his fault if u hate how u act..
2006-08-28 01:05:43 · answer #4 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he must have a problem when you get into those situations, and feels thast he can't confront you about them without proof, maybe you you deny you are as bad as you are. I don't think he did it to be mean unless he was using your bad moments on tape to get you riled up later.
2006-08-28 00:57:07 · answer #5 · answered by Justin K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably just a prankster. Does he have a crazy sense of humor? If so, that's it. If not, maybe he wants you to see how you act.
2006-08-28 00:56:12 · answer #6 · answered by InternetPosterChild 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is trying to tell you you have issues and hoping you "smarten up"!!!!!!!!!!! Apparently you haven't gotten the hint! I would do something about yourself and soon otherwise he may leave you.
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2006-08-28 02:03:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is trying to show you what a village idiot looks like? Change your ways.
2006-08-28 00:56:12 · answer #8 · answered by Trollhair 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he wants you to hate yourself. He wants you to know maybe that you doesnt look nice when you're drunk or mad.
2006-08-28 01:10:34 · answer #9 · answered by bitchy ass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably wants you to see how you act so you will try to change
2006-08-28 01:03:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋