2006-08-28 00:45:36 · 17 answers · asked by RKC 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Your personality is pretty much set by age 3. But you can gain knowledge by reading and reaching out to other people. So, you're on the right track.
2006-08-28 00:57:09 · answer #1 · answered by sweet & sour 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have a very worthy intention, and that is already a very good point to start from.
Since most of human life is based upon words, I would fisrt of all advise you to use words very carefully. Always tell the truth, unless it is a case of life or death. Always keep your promises, but don't promise impossible things. Acknowledge your own mistakes and be ready to make up for whatever evil you have done, even if unintentionally. Learn to apologize. And don't judge anything or anyone without listening before to all sides of the question.
A good personality is hard to achieve if you don't have good health. Then, a second step would be achieve a good condition (physical and mental) through healthy foods, exercise, rest and serenity.
Third step: Learn and study as much as you can, during all of your life, but never boast about what you seem to know.
And lastly strive for being simple rather than perfect. And develop a sense of humour for all the events in your life.
2006-08-28 10:37:40 · answer #2 · answered by JC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a well-rounded education.
Also, read "The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People" by Stephen Covey. There are many good books out there that can help you gain excellent characteristics.
No matter what kind of background you were raised in, you CAN change your personality in order to have a great personality.
2006-08-29 05:32:14 · answer #3 · answered by Big Bear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step1-self analysis once in a day
2-goal-setting
3-peer group behaviour study
4-read relevant topics
5-chart planner
\ 6-follow the chart
7-observe self, others during interaction to assess improvement/slippage
8-continue till I achieve the desired me
2006-08-28 20:56:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start by reading Marcul Aurelius' Meditations, follow it QUICKLY by Tuesdays With Morrie by Mitch Albom. Then take on a hobby, use no one, treat them and yourself as ends in themselves and not means to an end. Be kind always and your natural personality you already have but just cant see right now will shine through in all its glory and wonder. You are your own prophet and deliverer.
2006-08-28 00:48:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your quest is a change in personality, especially when you are way into adulthood, then you have to know it has to be a true committment to it. You can't be good overnight. It's a combination of studying methods of diplomacy, consideration, bringing God into your life (because really, who are we without our spiritual help) and learning how to love people not just for who they are but in spite of who they are.......so you are going to need a lot of self-help books for the rest of your life. It can be done, good luck.
2006-08-28 01:09:03 · answer #6 · answered by TABBY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Attend some IELTS english learning classes alongwith get tutorials for personality enhancement. You will have good confidence afterwards.
2006-08-28 00:56:14 · answer #7 · answered by Mani G.India 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear,
I will suggest you for good personality, if you are interested so much give me your no an email id.
Regards,
S Devadoss
2006-08-28 01:08:33 · answer #8 · answered by deva d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read the Bible. Specifically the New Testament.
2006-08-28 03:47:23 · answer #9 · answered by Ghost Eagle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too bad i never asked this question. its all ive ever desired. ill be taking z's advice. but for a quick fix until u figure it out try prozac, klonopin, zoloft, xanex, something like that to help alter your personality,.
2006-08-28 09:42:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋