and he has a very bad background which no one else knows of but only me. There is a party i am going to go to with him and my sister so if that could help me do something there.
2006-08-28 00:35:12 · 3 answers · asked by chingchang 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you just need to be honest with her and pray she will listen to you and stay away from this guy but I know from experience some times my sister dose not always listen to me that is just the way it is and my mom made some bad chooses in her life she is on her 3rd marriage and she finally got it right this time so good luck and just be there for her if she needs to talk let her know you care and she can come to you about any thing CZ my moms sister got raped and the only person she could go to was my mom and my mom still feels bad that she did not do any thing to help her when she found out but at least she was her listening ear but I think the guy should have gone to jail but they were afraid to tell any one CZ he went to the same church and had a very big family and they were afraid that if they said any thing they both could be in for trouble just let her know about his past you can not make her decisions but be there 4 her if she needs you!!!! please at least maybe be her chaperon and protect her!!!!
2006-08-28 06:03:08 · answer #1 · answered by tony 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I’m not sure how you got to be the only person who knows about the guy’s very bad background, but I would suggest that it is something your sister should be warned about.
No doubt you care about your sister, and you wouldn’t want to see her get hurt. So all I can really suggest to you is that you share your little secret with your sister, so that she is forewarned of what she is getting herself into.
The alternative of course is for you to not say anything… Your sister to get hurt… For her to find out that you knew what he was like but didn’t warn her… and for her to hold that against you!!!
2006-08-28 08:24:36 · answer #2 · answered by I_C_Y_U_R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately , you can't make her do anything. You can tell her
gently that you think she is making a mistake and that you are very concerned about her. If she doesn't listen to just be there for her if he hurts her in someway ! Good luck sweetie !!! You
sound like a great sister and great person in general .
2006-08-28 08:15:33 · answer #3 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋