You enter your room and find your younger brother digging up your bookshelf. Pens, books, pillows, blanket are lying elsewhere on the floor. What would you say?
2006-08-28 00:32:01 · 9 answers · asked by kira - kira 1 in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
i'd beat his butt first ask questions second,,,my little brother is 41 he better not be in my house going thru my stuff
2006-08-28 00:36:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing I would do is give myself time to calm down, It is only normal that this would upset you.
You need to be calm, but serious while you have your little brother come into your bedroom. You should ask him why he did what he did. Ask him if he was looking for something in particular or was playing and let his imagination get out of control.
Tell your brother that a bedroom is a place where one feels safe and comfortable and that anyone that comes into that private space should have permission from the rooms occupant.
Let him know that you still Love him, but explain that "YOU DO NOT LIKE HIS ACTIONS. Explain to him how it made you feel when you entered your room. Allow him time to tell you how he feels and what emotions and reasons caused him to do what he did.
The last thing you should do is have him help pick everything up and put back in its proper place. If you treat him with understanding and respect, it might stop this behavior from ever happening again.
By having him explain what emotions and reasons caused him to mess up your room, you are actually letting him except the blame and the consequences of his behavior. It also lets him know that you are a reasonable person who is willing to listen.
Good luck!
2006-08-28 07:54:36 · answer #2 · answered by moonlight_is_harmonious_1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mummmmm! Look what the little beggar's done to my room. Then he'd have to clean everything up to my exacting eye and anything broken his piggy bank would be paying for it.
2006-08-28 07:39:22 · answer #3 · answered by Lizzy-tish 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him and teach him how to arrange all the things
in the room.
2006-08-28 07:38:00 · answer #4 · answered by qiu l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you looking for? You had better start putting everything back where it was.
2006-08-28 07:40:23 · answer #5 · answered by Beth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youd ask him what he was doing and after that nicly tell him to put the stuff back from where he found it
2006-08-28 07:38:25 · answer #6 · answered by icedarkangel23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Do you need help?"
Obviously if this were to happen, he is consumed with finding whatever it is he's looking for.
After things settle, I'd decide whether or not to have him help me clean up.
2006-08-28 07:39:47 · answer #7 · answered by Fitchurg Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'll call the name and said stop it put that away if he using something .
2006-08-28 07:41:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you doing?
2006-08-28 07:37:55 · answer #9 · answered by survivor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋