People are constantly complaining about their spouse being horrible in bed. Does good sex go a long way?
2006-08-28 00:24:50 · 15 answers · asked by sexy_n_chicago 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
only............if the other person is willing to learn, experiment and be free. otherwise no.
2006-08-28 01:15:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've found that when 2 people have a real emotional connection the sex is naturally great, if your having horrible sex with someone then i think you guys arent made for each other... your sexual desires may clash and a lack of real trust and sence of true comfort is missing from the relationship,if you havnt had a discussion on how to improve your sex lives and make things a little bit more arousing, how will you guys really be once married? how comfortable are you really with this person and how do you really see a married life with them will be... how will the sex ever get better?
2006-08-28 07:34:43 · answer #2 · answered by alexandra s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex isnt the main reason to be married, but is very important to having a healthy sex life, i think the reason god wanted us all to wait to have sex till married was so we wouldnt know the difference if they were good or bad lol.. but i think if u did all u possibly could to teach the person to be a better lover in the bedroom and they just were horrible.. then id really have to ask myself if i could be married to a man that sex was horrible with after trying all i could.. but if i really loved him.. and he was perfect in all other ways, id probably find ways to cope.. and buy a life time supply of batteries .. lol..
2006-08-28 08:16:01 · answer #3 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even great sex only goes so far. If there are not common attitudes about life, religion, politics, and there are not common life goals; the relation ship will fall apart after awhile. You get angry about things, resentful towards the other person and that causes the sex to get bad too. Then there is nothing to hold the relationship together.
2006-08-28 07:42:03 · answer #4 · answered by Smartassawhip 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People who are terrible in bed, are terrible because they have no practice and because there is no communication. If you have sex regularly and say what you like and do not like there is no reason why sex should be bad. You can make it better for yourself by moving about and being more vocal rather than lying there like a sack of potatoes. Seriously, no one is bad in bed, unless they ejaculate too early, which if medication can't sort out, no I will not marry them!
2006-08-28 07:29:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although it would be shallow of me to say no, I wouldn't think that continueing on in the relationship would be a good idea. Unless she/he are willing to understand their partners needs that is. All of us just beginning in a relationship need time to growe with one another. It doesn't hapen overnight. Far to many people feel well, it's been 6 months, time to go, not good.
2006-08-28 07:51:25 · answer #6 · answered by ndvsne1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. If the sex is bad, all you need is good communication and a willingness to learn. People can be trained.
2006-08-28 07:28:57 · answer #7 · answered by Avid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marry if bad sex. NO
2006-08-28 07:48:49 · answer #8 · answered by Mit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I marry for companionship, not solely for sex.
2006-08-28 07:57:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is difficult enough. I can't imagine it with bad sex too.
2006-08-28 07:32:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is never bad just needs improvement
only bad sex is denial
2006-08-28 08:37:07 · answer #11 · answered by msqtech 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋