Should a relationship break up simply because it is easier than working through differences?

Answer 1

I don't think so. Nothing worth having is always easy. Relationships always have good and bad. You must ask yourself is this person worth the effort to keep trying. I have been married for a long time. We have faced problems over the years . We both felt our love was worth fighting for. No one can really answer this for you. You have to weigh the pros and cons and decide for yourself. This is probably not the answer you are looking for but it is true. The 2 of you are the only ones that know all the details. If the person was out of your life along with the difficulties, would you be happy? I think that is what you should ask yourself. Good Luck

Answer 2

it depends on the situation. it has been said " better to have a short than long pain".

sometimes in a relationship differences crops up too offten and soon . . . history repeating itself? its better to break it off permanently than to patch and break again.

it could also be problems too complicated or beyond solving thats its better rid the pain by breaking off.

sometimes its a cowardly way to escape the " heahaches" of a relationship.

but no matter which is being chosen, its never easy as the pain, hurt and heartache will linger and haunt the couple for time to come and disappearing. Appearing when reminders comes in and into another relationship. Worst still fears may come creeping in too. fear of rejection!

Whatever, its best to slove the problem, get a solution being good or bad and learn from it and avoiding it the next time?

Answer 3

That depends on the couple and their circumstances. I've dated some guys that it was easier to just throw in the towel than try to work it since I knew that it wouldn't work or wasn't worth the time or effort. Then my more serious loving relationships we tried to work through them if anything to make sure we gave it all we had. So neither one of us would wonder "what if". I don't know your situation, but I guess you need to ask yourself if it's going to be worth all the time and effort to fix it or are you just wasting your time cuz it will never change?

Answer 4

I think that if love is really strong btw the couple, no matter how hard the problem is.. there will always be one party that is willing to waork thru it and spur the other party to go on... cos love or relations is built thru effort in time, emotions and trust, if one problem can already break that relations, isn't it a high price to pay? therefore i think that all problems shld be solved rather than giving up the relations..unless there is really no better solution than giving up...

Answer 5

If that relationship is a marriage, No. Work it out. That is why it is called a committment. Never take the short cut because you may miss the beauty on the long road.....
BUT make sure you work through the differences. do not let them fester into fight fodder.

Answer 6

It depends on how much the couple values their relationship with each other. If it's worth fighting for, then you need to put in the hard work to make it work.

Answer 7

It depends on if the relationship ended because of an trust issue. If the other partner was unfaithful..It's really hard to trust that person again....And it would be better to just end the relationship.

Answer 8

if u are in a comitted relationship u should talk with ur partner about the problems or what whatever is on ur mind and try to find a solution to it if u cant solve it than break up

Answer 9

Yes... Sometimes it takes too much of an emotional toll on people to fix the un-fixable. Some relationships are just damaged goods.

Answer 10

No, if u take a vow , ur suppose to live by it everyday, not just when its convient or when it feels good.. there are only very few reasons that i believe a couple should throw in the towel..Abuse, infidelity, and harm to children.. thats it..