i love my g/f but i catch myself checking out other girls and wondering if i want to be tied down. i have never cheated and never would. sometimes i just feel like i don't want a relationship. is this odd or normal? what should i do?
2006-08-28 00:09:35 · 16 answers · asked by fireone 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you're curious and that's perfectly normal. If you let it get too far however your girlfriend might not like you anymore.
2006-08-28 00:12:18 · answer #1 · answered by peter gunn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not odd, you may not be ready yet.... and there is nothing wrong with looking, just because you love someone doesn't mean your dead...we all look ... Just remember, if you take the choice in dating other women your giving her the right to see other men....is that what you want, does that bother you? if not, maybe you should take a break and live out your curiosity, we only live once ya know !!!
2006-08-28 07:22:22 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just you being a typical guy.
There's this notion that you need to be with all the other billion women out there and can't be satisfied with the one you have.
So long as you look but don't touch, it shouldn't be such a big deal. Just make sure she doesn't catch you looking!
2006-08-28 07:13:28 · answer #3 · answered by julsgene 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal, and if you find yourself doing it, then you obviously dont love your girlfreind as much as you say you do......give yourself some time to work out who and what it is you want from life...let her go, and if in 6 months time, you still feel that you still love her then see if she will come back....if not it wasnt meant to be....trust me take it from someone that knows.....if you get tied down to something too early in life, then you WILL resent that person, for as long as you remain in each others lives....
2006-08-28 07:25:48 · answer #4 · answered by Mintjulip 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a female i would say that it is ok to look but DO NOT touch!!!!!!!!!! And as far as questioning your relationship try new things to spice it up. Do things out of the ordinary or plan romantic get aways.
2006-08-28 07:14:26 · answer #5 · answered by almenjoy1977 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude u love her,then why worry.it is normal for guys to look at other girls and girls to look at other guys even if they r carryin on wid someone else but when u have full control on urself and when u know tht u will never betray her then why wonder.dont worry
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2006-08-28 07:12:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course your not dead so you will look. Theres an old saying "You can look but don't touch." But you need to search your heart,you have too many doubts,for someone that is in love.
2006-08-28 07:22:20 · answer #7 · answered by jean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't give yourself a problem, it's normal. Even some girls do that, it's true! because as i have said it's normal. You know what I mean?
2006-08-28 07:18:22 · answer #8 · answered by ron 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is one thing to look and wonder and another to really try to resist temptation. take a break from your current gal and see what it is like to be without her. perhaps this will enable you to clear your head. (the one on the top, btw)
2006-08-28 07:14:45 · answer #9 · answered by evonne i 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its perfectly normal unless you start thinking you want to be with one of those girls instead of your girlfriend. you love ur gf but those other girls u only admire,so dont worry about it unless you dont love her anymore!
2006-08-28 07:46:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋