How can I make my husband love me again? He says he no longer does.?

Answer 1

Find something to make yourself happy that doesn't have to do with him. I think then maybe he can see what he fell in love with or at least you have made yourself better. Stop worrying about him and think of yourself. Confident women are a turn on. He doesn't want to fight and be miserable and if does screw him.

Answer 2

I'm really feel for you, as this is the absolute worst feeling in the world and you are not the only one that has ever gone through this. Unfortunately you cannot make someone feel and do and say things if only life were that simple. The only thing you can do is to keep your dignity. Tell him ok, if thats the way you feel, then you have to sit down and decide who moves out. You will feel dreadful for a few months, you need this time to grieve as this is a grieving process but you will get through this and come out the other end a much stronger person, and you will have kept your dignity and self respect, don't let him get you down. There is a big world out there, grab it with both hands and move on, stick Gloria Gaynor's I will survive song on full blast it will help honest, this is the first day of the rest of your life - enjoy it, you don't need him, I know it feels like you do and that you won't be able to move on, but you will in time. Good Luck and enjoy the rest of your life and wish him all the best in his.

Answer 3

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How can I make my husband love me again? He says he no longer does.?

Answer 4

I would say - What has changed since you first met???

Get things to how they were when you first fell in love

If thats not possible then move on chick.

Usually when a man says that its because of one of two things

1) You've become fat and rank
2) There's another woman

Answer 5

.Sorry but you cannot MAKE him love you...

Obviously things have changed in your lives - talk to him about the times you were in love, find out what HAS changed. Can those times be replayed or have you both changed too much ? People do fall out of love... Its sad but true :(

Maybe it is time to cut your losses and find someone else that WILL love you as you - and there will be people out there who will snap you up in a second.

Best case : The chats will create warm feelings and attraction - Worst Case : You call the relationship quits. In the worst case you will go thru hell for about 6 months then come out stronger than ever and loving life.

Good Luck !!! HUGS

Answer 6

sorry, but you can't make someone love you. that is something that has to happen on its own. and i don't think that a person can just fall out of love. theres more to it then that. either he loved you or he didn't love you, there's no in between. you should ask him to tell you honestly " how can you fall out of love, did you really love me at all?" this may seem like a harsh question to ask, but you deserve a honest answer from him. if it can't be resolved, then put it behind you and go on with your life. you also deserve to be happy and find the one true love of your life, the one that will love back, and love you unconitionally. good luck to you in whatever desion is made.

Answer 7

You can't make anyone love you again. Why did he fall out of love with you? Find that out, and you can go from there. It is really hard to get that feeling back once it is gone.

Answer 8

you cant 'make' someone love you, it doesnt work like that! Talk to your husband, go back to basics to find out the reasons behind his change of heart. Was it gradual, or something you did, such as having an affair? You dont give much to go on.

Answer 9

You can't force someone to fall in love, but if he's just hurt and that's making him get confused about his feelings, you can try to start again.

First, don't be proud. You have to see if it's you who need to change and do something about it. In a relationship, it'll always take one (usually the woman) to fix it, and you get to fix the relationship fixing yourself.

Treat him with respect. Try to think about the things you do that irritate him and stop doing it. It will be hard at first, but if you continue fighting, you will change naturally.

Don't complain about his mistakes. If you find something in him that irritates you, try to remember something good that he does. Every time you want to fight, count until 100. If you treat him with love and care and he treats you bad, sooner or later he'll give value to you. Make him see you are the best woman to take care of him, and there's no one outside like you.

What has passed, has passed. Try not to remember the things he did that made you suffer. Don't throw it right at his face, and if he does it to you, say you're sorry and MEAN IT.

have some self respect. No one likes people who humiliate themselves all the time. Show him you are there for hm, but without showing desperation.
If he says something like: "I want to divorce you", say "I don't want to divorce you. I still like you, but it you want it, OK".

Answer 10

Hello dear one, simply find out (NOT BY ASKING ANY ONE) how less truly womanly you have been and work on this. Check if you demand too much sex and not bother whether he is happy with you or not. Are you always naked or half dressed when you are with him or even away from him? Do you ask too much questions from him as a matter of right? Just check out some of the things you do when you think you are right and review them all within yourself. Dont ask others for the answers because as a woman, if you are truly womanly,you have answers within your intuition. It is your greatest gift from GOD, use it, it never fails!

Answer 11

First of all, you cannot MAKE someone love you. It is hard when someone you love says this to you. (personal experience). second, I found truth in the saying, If you love them set them free.
If he is willing to talk to you about it, ask him why, but only for your own information, you will need to know if it is something you have done or if it is a change in him. And most importantly realise that it is not your fault, you have no control over his emotions.